DryTheRiver Posted September 29, 2015 Posted September 29, 2015 Hello, well I'm a 22 year old male in college. I dated this girl for almost 2 years and friends for longer, and we were extremely close. It was the longest relationship we'd both been in, and we did everything together. We broke up over a bad week, that shouldn't have ended. I was trying new anxiety medication - lexapro and she was struggling with her things. We both regretted it, but her new sorority friends convinced her otherwise about me. They made her a tinder account, and after we broke up would just immaturely tell me there were other guys. We broke up last October, so it's almost been a year, and its been very tough. I moved colleges, found new friends but I do still love her & but I am happy now. I had planned to take her to a trip I funded to disney world for a week and a trip with my family to Florida beach, and because we shared so much in that time and clicked on everything. I broke no contact during this time months later, and attempted to talk to her and all she did was furiously tell me to leave with language and that she did not care for me. She did block me on all social media. She made me out to be some bad ex bf, and I think she convinced herself this. Stupidly I drunk texted her about 4 weeks ago, and she told me to F off and went on and on excessively. She hated cuss words while we dated, so its different seeing her now using them against me. During her second relationship after me her boyfriend messaged me through facebook, I was shocked and he told me to go for her because all she does is talk about me, and she broke up with him. I never did anything about it, cause our mutual friend told me she "hated me." I started getting anon messages on my social media, example was my tumblr account. They weren't hateful but all about my ex. Because I have alot of followers for my writings I just decided to add a tracker to my blog. If someone opens my tumblr on their computers, it tells me the city-state-time they viewed. Added for I could narrow it down to who it was, well its her every time. The messages stopped a few months ago, but I do get emails for the report occasionally on my viewers. She looks at it every single day almost. Also my reddit account because she sent me an anon message through tumblr about my reddit commentss/posts before. I don't understand, I know some people check up on their past significant others but this much? We have mutual friends and she's been in another relationship for a few months now, third one since we've broken up, and I haven't been with another since - my own choice. is this normal? It makes her seem a bit crazy, but i know she isn't. While we dated she always kept up with everything its just her ocd. I want to call her out on it, but part of me doesn't want too cause I know she'll just curse.
frigginlost Posted September 29, 2015 Posted September 29, 2015 Hello, well I'm a 22 year old male in college. I dated this girl for almost 2 years and friends for longer, and we were extremely close. It was the longest relationship we'd both been in, and we did everything together. We broke up over a bad week, that shouldn't have ended. I was trying new anxiety medication - lexapro and she was struggling with her things. We both regretted it, but her new sorority friends convinced her otherwise about me. They made her a tinder account, and after we broke up would just immaturely tell me there were other guys. We broke up last October, so it's almost been a year, and its been very tough. I moved colleges, found new friends but I do still love her & but I am happy now. I had planned to take her to a trip I funded to disney world for a week and a trip with my family to Florida beach, and because we shared so much in that time and clicked on everything. I broke no contact during this time months later, and attempted to talk to her and all she did was furiously tell me to leave with language and that she did not care for me. She did block me on all social media. She made me out to be some bad ex bf, and I think she convinced herself this. Stupidly I drunk texted her about 4 weeks ago, and she told me to F off and went on and on excessively. She hated cuss words while we dated, so its different seeing her now using them against me. During her second relationship after me her boyfriend messaged me through facebook, I was shocked and he told me to go for her because all she does is talk about me, and she broke up with him. I never did anything about it, cause our mutual friend told me she "hated me." I started getting anon messages on my social media, example was my tumblr account. They weren't hateful but all about my ex. Because I have alot of followers for my writings I just decided to add a tracker to my blog. If someone opens my tumblr on their computers, it tells me the city-state-time they viewed. Added for I could narrow it down to who it was, well its her every time. The messages stopped a few months ago, but I do get emails for the report occasionally on my viewers. She looks at it every single day almost. Also my reddit account because she sent me an anon message through tumblr about my reddit commentss/posts before. I don't understand, I know some people check up on their past significant others but this much? We have mutual friends and she's been in another relationship for a few months now, third one since we've broken up, and I haven't been with another since - my own choice. is this normal? It makes her seem a bit crazy, but i know she isn't. While we dated she always kept up with everything its just her ocd. I want to call her out on it, but part of me doesn't want too cause I know she'll just curse. It's curiosity on her part. Is it normal? Sure. I have an ex who stalks my social stuff as well. It really means nothing. Don't call her on anything, because that only makes you look bad. Just keep on living your life. If there is anything more to it, she will let you know.
Shock148 Posted September 29, 2015 Posted September 29, 2015 Sounds like she has issues but contacting her will just lead to another fight. Either you contact her and basically clear the air "why do you constantly stalk me, constantly talk bad about me when I do nothing to deserve it, etc." or just block her from everything and be done with it. 1
David87 Posted September 30, 2015 Posted September 30, 2015 Sounds like she has issues but contacting her will just lead to another fight. Either you contact her and basically clear the air "why do you constantly stalk me, constantly talk bad about me when I do nothing to deserve it, etc." or just block her from everything and be done with it. Just BLOCK her and move on.....remember what happened when you drunk texted her? F..K off.....
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