Guyouthere Posted September 29, 2015 Posted September 29, 2015 Dating is natures way of sorting out prospective mates for continuance of the species. It shouldn't be that complicated. So you wonder why so many humans can't get it right after all this time. If we evolved as many say we did, then many of the bad traits should have been weeded out long ago.
Author Guyouthere Posted September 29, 2015 Author Posted September 29, 2015 How much is too much to forgive??? A fight where you say harsh words? I would think if you love someone, you at least try and work with them to fix some things that cause stress in the relationship. If they aren't capable or willing to do that, you get your signal right there they aren't in love with you, and/or care about you or the relationship. What do you think?
ZA Dater Posted September 29, 2015 Posted September 29, 2015 Those of us who are weak just liveca worthless miserable life.
ManyDissapoint Posted September 29, 2015 Posted September 29, 2015 Dating is natures way of sorting out prospective mates for continuance of the species. It shouldn't be that complicated. So you wonder why so many humans can't get it right after all this time. If we evolved as many say we did, then many of the bad traits should have been weeded out long ago. Not sure exactly what your post is about but I can tell you have a weak understanding of the mechanics of evolution. You should read up on it, it's very interesting. 1
Author Guyouthere Posted September 29, 2015 Author Posted September 29, 2015 (edited) How much is too much to forgive??? A fight where you say harsh words? I would think if you love someone, you at least try and work with them to fix some things that cause stress in the relationship. If they aren't capable or willing to do that, you get your signal right there they aren't in love with you, and/or care about you or the relationship. What do you think? I fully agree. Real maturity and patience also plays a part. To me, thats the real test….. how they/we handle the challenges. Thats what is making me feel better here too with what I experienced. No, not bashing her, but I do say things as they are. Like you all know, I did so much for her. I can and do go off verbally at times if I get pushed too much. Blame shouldn't be placed, but how each acts out afterwards says a lot more (I believe). I'm feeling better now because even though I was wrong in saying what I did, it says a lot more that she can't forgive and forget, or take ANY responsibility for any of it. I can forgive someone, I don't hold a grudge. The way she is handling this now says more about her,,, and if in fact she really did have a guy on the side… I have come to realize that she would never be good for me if she was capable of deception like that. I was married 15 years prior to this and suffered at the hands of a lying and cheating wife. That nearly ruined me at the time. Any lies or deception now immediately bring back memories of that time. I know me. I know why I act as I do, and many times I do just react to how I am treated. Edited September 29, 2015 by Guyouthere
Author Guyouthere Posted September 29, 2015 Author Posted September 29, 2015 Not sure exactly what your post is about but I can tell you have a weak understanding of the mechanics of evolution. You should read up on it, it's very interesting. Undesireable traits/qualities get weeded out over time. That includes anything that doesn't service the advancement of the species.
autumnnight Posted September 29, 2015 Posted September 29, 2015 Is this a blog? Do you have DAD? You responded to yourself.... Would you like a cheeseburger? 3
Author Guyouthere Posted September 29, 2015 Author Posted September 29, 2015 Is this a blog? Do you have DAD? You responded to yourself.... Would you like a cheeseburger? Sometimes I find it more appealing to talk to myself, because I can always win. hehehehe Actually, its a typo. Thanks for pointing it out. I do like burgers, but on a diet now since I am working out. Skippng all cheese too. hehehe We can go on a date and I can give you my Big Mac…. and make you smile 1
Jules Dash Posted September 29, 2015 Posted September 29, 2015 Not sure exactly what your post is about but I can tell you have a weak understanding of the mechanics of evolution. You should read up on it, it's very interesting. Ok. You said it, I didn't.
Jules Dash Posted September 29, 2015 Posted September 29, 2015 Undesireable traits/qualities get weeded out over time. That includes anything that doesn't service the advancement of the species. Not really. That is not the essence of the mechanics behind evolution. It has nothing to do with "undesirable traits or qualities."
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