trickie911 Posted September 29, 2015 Posted September 29, 2015 Known girl 5 years, dated 3 monthsuntil last week.After a few months I checked out was thinking of telling her I want to go back to friends again. We meet, she brings it up I tell her I'm in same boat and we finish our drinks hug and go on with our day. Next day I'm fine we talk like normal, everything's ok. Slept like crap that night and since then I 100% regret letting it come to that. Wtf is wrong with me? I've since screwed up friendship and regret spilling my guts, it made it weird and I don't even know if the way I feel is genuine or just my bruised ego. I honestly don't know.
HeartbrokenNewbie Posted September 29, 2015 Posted September 29, 2015 Bruised ego! But think she prob feels the same as u did & might even feel what u are feeling now so keep in touch & see if it can be brought back around without pressure... what will be, will be x
Shock148 Posted September 29, 2015 Posted September 29, 2015 Known girl 5 years, dated 3 monthsuntil last week.After a few months I checked out was thinking of telling her I want to go back to friends again. We meet, she brings it up I tell her I'm in same boat and we finish our drinks hug and go on with our day. Next day I'm fine we talk like normal, everything's ok. Slept like crap that night and since then I 100% regret letting it come to that. Wtf is wrong with me? I've since screwed up friendship and regret spilling my guts, it made it weird and I don't even know if the way I feel is genuine or just my bruised ego. I honestly don't know. Bruised ego and you dont want to be lonely. Why else would both of you say lets go back as being friends? Neither one of you felt it was working out. Once you find another woman then your feelings towards her will go back to how it was before you decided to date.
mightycpa Posted September 29, 2015 Posted September 29, 2015 WTF is wrong with you is that you have no replacement poontang to comfort you. Just the way you told that story makes me think that you hate to be alone.
Author trickie911 Posted September 29, 2015 Author Posted September 29, 2015 WTF is wrong with you is that you have no replacement poontang to comfort you. Just the way you told that story makes me think that you hate to be alone. I have replacement poontang not helping. I want my friend back without it being weird.
mightycpa Posted September 29, 2015 Posted September 29, 2015 You can't have that until you stop feeling weird. Ball's in your court.
Shock148 Posted September 29, 2015 Posted September 29, 2015 I have replacement poontang not helping. I want my friend back without it being weird. Only way you can have your friend back is if you stop feeling weird. I dont understand, you don't want to be with her and only want to be friends but feel weird that you ended things? If you truly just want to be friends, reach out to her and be a friend. You feeling weird is probably because you feel guilty for hurting her or something. Tell her you are sorry and tell her you really want to be friends. See how she responds and go from there.
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