Dopher87 Posted September 29, 2015 Posted September 29, 2015 My ex hurt me broke my heart so i want to send her this message she constantly talked over the phone over me insulted me in every way possible Is it justified? we can start off on a clean slate we were both equally were mean and disrespectful you were not honest with ur feelings when i was with you why did you do that whenever i asked what was bothering you you never wanted to tell me cus you gave up or whatever and that we didn't have enough sex cus of me lol cus you were always making up excuses or pissed off at me half the time or just wanting me to get you off in bed of course i wanted to **** you when i'm attracted to you i should of got the **** out of there the first week i said i wanted to make it work and i felt you lied sayin ya wasted my time money and i ended up getting hurt and heart broken cause of all this **** and ill never forget it, in sweden i can recall only once when you pushed me into answering a question bout ur weight which wasn't even INTENTIONAL you tell me i used it against you on the phone i remember saying YA I sobbed and you think i meant it EH you can do what you want though you were the one who always had something to be bitching about I listened to you vent I was always there for you so go ahead be at home tell your friends family cali your new boyfriend how bad of a bf I was that i'm all the blame that i'm an ******* we know the truth i obviously mean if a you think a guy with billions and a 12 inch cock can make you happy over what we had then go for it **** off bitch i was always there for you I ****ing cared about you fully I did things for you but what ever I felt this was justified cus the phone convo Ya i still do love you it's funny aint it. I've been living life but I still feel you inside me.
Author Dopher87 Posted September 29, 2015 Author Posted September 29, 2015 (edited) Any advice here Edited September 29, 2015 by Dopher87
thunder777 Posted September 29, 2015 Posted September 29, 2015 thats the biggest one sentence ive ever seen!!! after a breakup, filling her head with heart broken essays is the worst thing you can do most on here will say go NO CONTACT now dont go all soft and sooky about it, thats far from unmanly and women dont want unmanly men, do u agree? as an alternative, you could get all her things together at your place, and say "hey ive stashed all the crap you left at my place in a box, youve got 3 days to come get all your sh#t or im putting it in a charity bin, besides that dont ever f#cken contact me again" 1
Author Dopher87 Posted September 29, 2015 Author Posted September 29, 2015 (edited) thanks for the response, We were in a long distance weve beeen brokeing up with for 2 months i want to leave a mark and hurt her like she did too me she has the wrong idea that i am OK with what happened Edited September 29, 2015 by Dopher87
thunder777 Posted September 29, 2015 Posted September 29, 2015 if she was too far toxic for u, then she not the right one for u 2 months is great, u should really go extreme no contact the only way to win now is to move on, meet someone new, and when she comes running back to you, and your in love with somebody else, that will be the closing victory its normally how it goes it just takes time block her out completely, delete numbers, emails, block her on social media make her a stranger, start heading towards someone who will love u with kindness 1
Author Dopher87 Posted September 29, 2015 Author Posted September 29, 2015 (edited) No i want her to feel some hurt and know the truth she always talked over my ass shes the most beautiful intelligent girl ive been with but she broke up with me over nothing Edited September 29, 2015 by Dopher87
MrReborn Posted September 29, 2015 Posted September 29, 2015 (edited) No i want her to feel some hurt and know the truth she always talked over my ass shes the most beautiful intelligent girl ive been with but she broke up with me over nothing Broke up with you over nothing you say? Judging by your post, you come off as a insecure, weak man. Those reasons alone are enough to break up with someone. You do realize she always talked over you because you never asserted yourself when she was, which was due to you being weak and insecure right? She was testing your strength, and you kept failing over and over until she broke up with you. You say you want her to feel the same pain you feel. Initiate no contact, move on with your life, stop worrying about what she thinks, date other people and she'll catch on to how happy you are. By that time, you would have probably found someone better. Sending her a message like that will only justify her reasons of letting you go, and it will probably bring her attraction towards you to absolute rock bottom. It also sounds like she's just a disrespectful person in general, and someone's who's disrespectful to you in any sort of relationship isn't worth your time. Edited September 29, 2015 by MrReborn 1
Shock148 Posted September 29, 2015 Posted September 29, 2015 My ex hurt me broke my heart so i want to send her this message she constantly talked over the phone over me insulted me in every way possible Is it justified? we can start off on a clean slate we were both equally were mean and disrespectful you were not honest with ur feelings when i was with you why did you do that whenever i asked what was bothering you you never wanted to tell me cus you gave up or whatever and that we didn't have enough sex cus of me lol cus you were always making up excuses or pissed off at me half the time or just wanting me to get you off in bed of course i wanted to **** you when i'm attracted to you i should of got the **** out of there the first week i said i wanted to make it work and i felt you lied sayin ya wasted my time money and i ended up getting hurt and heart broken cause of all this **** and ill never forget it, in sweden i can recall only once when you pushed me into answering a question bout ur weight which wasn't even INTENTIONAL you tell me i used it against you on the phone i remember saying YA I sobbed and you think i meant it EH you can do what you want though you were the one who always had something to be bitching about I listened to you vent I was always there for you so go ahead be at home tell your friends family cali your new boyfriend how bad of a bf I was that i'm all the blame that i'm an ******* we know the truth i obviously mean if a you think a guy with billions and a 12 inch cock can make you happy over what we had then go for it **** off bitch i was always there for you I ****ing cared about you fully I did things for you but what ever I felt this was justified cus the phone convo Ya i still do love you it's funny aint it. I've been living life but I still feel you inside me. My advice is to let it go. Don't contact her with this or any other message because it can only end in 1 way, and that is bad. An argument will happen, feelings will be hurt, its just a no no. Obviously this relationship seems like it didnt work out and was full of negativity towards the end so the only thing you can do is not to contact her for a while and move on. 1
Satu Posted September 29, 2015 Posted September 29, 2015 (edited) Ya i still do love you it's funny aint it. I've been living life but I still feel you inside me. Find out what love is, because what you're feeling isn't love. Edited September 29, 2015 by Satu 1
Shock148 Posted September 29, 2015 Posted September 29, 2015 Find out what love is, because what you're feeling isn't love. Agreed, thats not love. That's more like I had someone and I didnt feel lonely. 1
Satu Posted September 29, 2015 Posted September 29, 2015 (edited) Agreed, thats not love. That's more like I had someone and I didnt feel lonely. It's a million miles away from love. It's a form of dysfunctional attachment. Edited September 29, 2015 by Satu
Author Dopher87 Posted September 29, 2015 Author Posted September 29, 2015 (edited) She knows I love her I told her on the phone things got heated she's in europe I'm Canadian I just wanted to make it work she got bored asked for space I gave her a long month than I msged her and she said I was jelious of other dudes she was playing games with I told her I just want to know what's going on she felt I disrespect her and her space than I got upset cus she was cold very small talked so I blew up and she said she didn't want to be with me I said the same but I didn't mean it idk thanks for all the input here sobshould I just continue no contact? We talked on the phone it ended up with her laughing at me calling me desperate and pathetic making fun of me recording the conversation idk she was my first Love idk I'm a mess since July. What should I do? I'd like her to know she hurt me we played games online together she was my best friend now we're nothing. Crazy I wanted to send a hurtful message cus she obviously doesn't care bout me at all Edited September 29, 2015 by Dopher87
quattrob Posted September 29, 2015 Posted September 29, 2015 So you guys have never met each other in real life? What were you trying to do to get geographically closer to each other? Long distance relationships rarely ever work if even one side doesn't put in that extra effort. The way I see your situation is, she got bored and sick of you and it's so much easier to let go of you and dump you since you're so far away. She insulted you in every possible way as you said and told you she doesn't want to be with you, leave her alone already. Sending her messages doesn't do anything except letting her hurt you further. This "relationship" if you even want to call it that was never healthy to begin with, this was all just fun and games, it didn't seem like a serious relationship to me. Next time I suggest you find someone within your area and look for someone that really does want to be with you.
Author Dopher87 Posted September 29, 2015 Author Posted September 29, 2015 So you guys have never met each other in real life? What were you trying to do to get geographically closer to each other? Long distance relationships rarely ever work if even one side doesn't put in that extra effort. The way I see your situation is, she got bored and sick of you and it's so much easier to let go of you and dump you since you're so far away. She insulted you in every possible way as you said and told you she doesn't want to be with you, leave her alone already. Sending her messages doesn't do anything except letting her hurt you further. This "relationship" if you even want to call it that was never healthy to begin with, this was all just fun and games, it didn't seem like a serious relationship to me. Next time I suggest you find someone within your area and look for someone that really does want to be with you. We were together I lived in sweden for 60 days with her other than that thanks this was helpful shes just the perfect girl in my eyes i blew had one blow up and she called it quits thats why it hurts. and she was my first love. she meant to break my heart I guess cus it wasnt serious enough for her. i just want to make her feel as bad as i did I went through extreme pain for 2 MONTHS straight
Author Dopher87 Posted September 30, 2015 Author Posted September 30, 2015 I guess i can say I loved her but i was not inlove with her what you guys think?
Shock148 Posted September 30, 2015 Posted September 30, 2015 I guess i can say I loved her but i was not inlove with her what you guys think? If you love her and not in love with her then you need to understand and it should be easy for you to move on. She does not want to be in a long distance relationship. Respect her decision and if you love her just be her friend if she wants to and leave her alone. She does not want to be with you and you need to understand that. But honestly though it seems like you are in love with her with that message you wanted to send her.
Author Dopher87 Posted October 1, 2015 Author Posted October 1, 2015 she's on my mind at work, when i'm alone all the time, but if she doesn't want me in her life I got to live with it , Everybody here as been very helpful thank you for the input, I Just wish we could start on a clean slate but I have no messaged her since that call.
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