One_Made_of_Silver Posted September 29, 2015 Posted September 29, 2015 So, this interesting girl I've been chatting with on OLD gave me her number. After some texting, I said, "Are you free one night this week? Let's meet." Her:"Not sure. I work a lot." Ummm...What does that mean? What am I supposed to say to that? Should I move on?
TunaCat Posted September 29, 2015 Posted September 29, 2015 Well first of all, your invitation was very vague. Come up with a day, place & time and ask her out. Of course she said she wasn't sure because you didn't give her a concrete day/time to work off of. If after you've asked her out, she says she's busy & DOESN'T offer an alternative day/time, then you should move on.
oberkeat Posted September 29, 2015 Posted September 29, 2015 She's wasting your time. If that's how she responds to most guys who ask her out, no wonder she's single. I think you should move on. 1
LilaMarie Posted September 29, 2015 Posted September 29, 2015 When I'm into a guy my response is, I can't do x date but I'm available on x date and x date. She's just not into you but you can respond with something like, "What day and time works for you?" 1
oberkeat Posted September 29, 2015 Posted September 29, 2015 Well first of all, your invitation was very vague. Come up with a day, place & time and ask her out. Of course she said she wasn't sure because you didn't give her a concrete day/time to work off of. If after you've asked her out, she says she's busy & DOESN'T offer an alternative day/time, then you should move on. I disagree. She didn't even give him a little help. She couldn't give him one night this week when she was free? Please. 2
Michelle ma Belle Posted September 29, 2015 Posted September 29, 2015 I agree with the posts that tell you she's just not that into you. What's the point of being on a dating site if you're not sure you're available to meet someone because your life is really busy with work? Come on! Anyone sincerely interested in you will make a point to meet no matter how busy they are or how vague your attempt was at asking for a date. Sorry OP, time to drop this hot potato and try again. Good luck. 1
Author One_Made_of_Silver Posted September 29, 2015 Author Posted September 29, 2015 I agree with the posts that tell you she's just not that into you. What's the point of being on a dating site if you're not sure you're available to meet someone because your life is really busy with work? Come on! Anyone sincerely interested in you will make a point to meet no matter how busy they are or how vague your attempt was at asking for a date. Sorry OP, time to drop this hot potato and try again. Good luck. This is pretty much my thinking. I'm gonna delete her number. It sucks, but I suppose I'll have to keep looking. 2
jam.over.jelly Posted September 29, 2015 Posted September 29, 2015 Well first of all, your invitation was very vague. Come up with a day, place & time and ask her out. Of course she said she wasn't sure because you didn't give her a concrete day/time to work off of. If after you've asked her out, she says she's busy & DOESN'T offer an alternative day/time, then you should move on. OP politely asked her to meet up one night of the week and he was considerate enough for her to pick, since maybe he doesn't know her schedule. He did exactly what he could have done, it's the girl that's clearly just talking to him because she wants attention. OP, this girl is a waste of your time.
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