serious confussion

[bluenote]

A year and half ago I was in a very confusing relationship with a young lady. it was confusing because 80% she was demanding-mostly money, not even that much. I put an end to it after one day she called me in the middle of day and realy went on about me buying her underware. It was stupifying because she was clearly drunk-could hear male and female laughter, it was apparent and I presume that she perhaps had a story to tell that I would do anything for her on demand. It was realy offending. I text her that it was not the way I wanted to know and think of her that she disrespect me that way, and that I no longer want to speak to her again.

 

Its now a year since that day and we havent' spoken. Three weeks ago she calls me out of the blue, I was supprised but happy, we chat. She starts calling me few times after that and even says she loves me. I was very happy to hear that after such a long time. I though she finaly came to her senses. then she asked for money-again not a lot and I gave. Then it just went quite no text or call. I waited and text her. She just gave a short reply. After that I didnt' contact her. I called last week and ask how she is and she just said she fine I said ok, that was it.

 

I am just confused, did she make a mistake by calling me after so long or I hope not-did she seriously call me and chat me up jsut to ask for a hundred dollars-I dont understnd why all this and then just quite.

 

I decided I wont' do anything, I will not contact her again. Now its just irritating because the trueth is I care for her, its a sad thing

[blackcat777]

Unfortunately... it sounds to me like she is taking advantage of you. Stay no contact.

[Satu]

There's nothing confusing about this.

 

She's clearly someone who uses people.

 

No contact.

[cessna]

She's taking you for a mug. Simple as that.