jen_r Posted September 28, 2015 Posted September 28, 2015 I just can't get out of this funk. Im depressed and can't imagine things improving. My "bf" treats me like well...nothing. We aren't together anymore as of this weekend and although it breaks my heart, I WANT to move on - I just can't. I have no friends. I find it so friggin hard to connect with people and be normal with people. I always wanna stay home and sit on the couch and be on my computer. If you saw me, you would never think I was this way. I just joined a dating website (first time ever) and I feel so stupid talking to these guys because I have zero social life. "Hey yeah, I sit home and dwell on everything, I have no friends and I hate my life...wanna hang out?" Like seriously? What do I even have to offer? How do I make friends? A guy on there asked me if I wanted to hang out and Im just thinking "NO. CANT DO IT." Im not even looking for a relationship after just breaking up and honestly my mind is still on my ex, I only joined so that I could take steps toward moving in a different direction. For the life of me I can't figure out why I can't make friends and just be "normal"...I hate being home alone all the time and wishing I could just call someone and say hey lets grab coffee!
mrs rubble Posted September 28, 2015 Posted September 28, 2015 Why not join a club or sports group? There must be something that interests you! Charity work would make you feel good about doing good for the community and allow you to meet new people.
Author jen_r Posted September 28, 2015 Author Posted September 28, 2015 I signed up and partially paid for a pottery class. I was supposed to start this past Saturday and bailed. I couldn't commit to it and was just afraid of something new. I think thats my problem, I'm always afraid of the unknown and stick to my comfort zone.
mrs rubble Posted September 28, 2015 Posted September 28, 2015 I signed up and partially paid for a pottery class. I was supposed to start this past Saturday and bailed. I couldn't commit to it and was just afraid of something new. I think thats my problem, I'm always afraid of the unknown and stick to my comfort zone. Go on take the plunge!! You can do it!! I'm the same, I feel anxious, self conscious and nervous around new people. I just tell myself that they're not going to notice (my short comings) & if they do they're probably not going to care, & if they do care there's only a slim chance they'll remember in a weeks time. 1
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