Author E-Squared Posted October 1, 2015 Author Posted October 1, 2015 Sure it was. . . Oh spare me, Ms. Human Resources.
Toodaloo Posted October 1, 2015 Posted October 1, 2015 She knows your hiding something. She has probably moved on. When talking about yourself always be honest. If I guy doesn't tell me about his living arrangements when I ask I assume one of the following a. sponging off of parents b. still in a relationship There is a difference between living with Mummy so you can save for a deposit and living with Mummy so you can get your washing done... Just saying! I have met FAR too many men who fall into the later category... Its just embarrassing to be honest. 2
Got it Posted October 1, 2015 Posted October 1, 2015 Oh spare me, Ms. Human Resources. :confused::rolleyes: Mmmmmkayyyyy . . . . .
thefooloftheyear Posted October 1, 2015 Posted October 1, 2015 I have already stated my position earlier in the thread...No job/money/car,? Then there would be no point in trying to meet someone...I would be embarrassed..Horribly embarrassed.. That being said........ I know some guys who are absolute losers....I mean...Pot smoking morons that couldn't hold down a job and are so broke they cant even pay attention... Yet, they find dumb women to carry them...And one that I can think of...(second cousin), actually is with an attractive woman who really seems to have her shyt together...I dont see where she thinks this is the way to go...I think for some women they like the idea that the guy isnt independent...I think they probably feel more in control in the relationship and by creating a dependency on his part that he'd be less likely to cheat on her or leave her at the curb....But not really sure.. I dunno, OP....You talk about being out of shape...Maybe the answer here is whip yourself into shape or get a dope habit....You might be surprised how far that takes you...:lmao: TFY 4
MissBee Posted October 1, 2015 Posted October 1, 2015 I am debating whether I should finally answer her question today. It's been three days since we last talked, by the way. No, you've made it too awkward and an even bigger deal now. Just forget about it. 2
Author E-Squared Posted October 1, 2015 Author Posted October 1, 2015 (edited) I have already stated my position earlier in the thread...No job/money/car,? Then there would be no point in trying to meet someone...I would be embarrassed..Horribly embarrassed.. That being said........ I know some guys who are absolute losers....I mean...Pot smoking morons that couldn't hold down a job and are so broke they cant even pay attention... Yet, they find dumb women to carry them...And one that I can think of...(second cousin), actually is with an attractive woman who really seems to have her shyt together...I dont see where she thinks this is the way to go...I think for some women they like the idea that the guy isnt independent...I think they probably feel more in control in the relationship and by creating a dependency on his part that he'd be less likely to cheat on her or leave her at the curb....But not really sure.. I dunno, OP....You talk about being out of shape...Maybe the answer here is whip yourself into shape or get a dope habit....You might be surprised how far that takes you...:lmao: TFY I may have a gut, but I am far from out of shape. I work out almost every day and I TRY to eat better, and no, I don't eat junk food all the time. [language redacted] No, you've made it too awkward and an even bigger deal now. Just forget about it. I noted in a previous post that I texted her and she texted back hours later, stating that she had been busy and wants to meet up. Then she said something about her boundary about how she won't continue to talk to someone after two weeks of talking and not meeting up. I don't even care anymore about her. I even deleted her off of my contacts list. Edited December 22, 2015 by a LoveShack.org Moderator
Els Posted October 2, 2015 Posted October 2, 2015 I really like how you are trying to pin the blame on the woman for asking about an area of your life that you feel embarrassed about. IMO you have two options: 1) Feel less embarrassed about it instead of blaming them for asking an innocuous question 2) Work on changing your situation 3
salparadise Posted October 2, 2015 Posted October 2, 2015 ...in the past I had experienced a woman's interest in me just dying like that after having told her about my living situation and that I lack a mode of transport. Friends of mine told me that if a woman has a problem with things like that, then she is not worth dating. Your friends are lying to spare your feelings... how do you imagine this would work? She drives whatever the distance to pick you up, drives you back to her place to shag, then has to get our of bed, get dressed and drive another round trip to take you back home to your parents? What time is curfew? 1
Author E-Squared Posted October 2, 2015 Author Posted October 2, 2015 Your friends are lying to spare your feelings... how do you imagine this would work? She drives whatever the distance to pick you up, drives you back to her place to shag, then has to get our of bed, get dressed and drive another round trip to take you back home to your parents? What time is curfew? I only referenced a past example for that one when my friends told me about that, and I mean like two and a half years ago. The most recent one was totally different. I gave up on her completely, and it only had been a week. I had deleted her off of my contacts list.
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