Mrlonelyone Posted September 28, 2015 Posted September 28, 2015 I don't count anything where we know eachother less than say a few months or so as a "failure". That's part of getting to know somoene. Either you like them a bit or you do not. For me failure is when I have let people in to know me for real for real. When the early mating dance stops and I let them know me for a while, like me for a while then it always seems quite suddenly stop liking me. Often only to like me again. Then go away again. For me failure is choosing the wrong person again and again. It seems never to work out. They say such sweet things in the start, voice their support and acceptance, and love for me. I do also for them. It seems to be working out then POOF... over. It hurts to feel so alone for reasons I could not change. Even if they like me for me a real deep relationship is about more than two people. It is about family and obligations and sharing life, real life together. That is always when those I choose go poof. A bad part is it seems little of the advice I get works for me.
Reels Posted September 30, 2015 Posted September 30, 2015 You should consider knowing by now that your first break up was rather a warning, to look for better. I am only saying this because that is what I have applied all my life since I had break up. The way we treat first break up as a bad thing, yes it is a bad thing but not in long run.
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