adiamond Posted September 29, 2015 Posted September 29, 2015 With me, when we broke up I cried a lot and told him how much the relationship meant to me and to not leave. He stayed and held with me through the night and we talked the next day when he told me he couldn't handle the guilty/ fear of the future and we should go separate paths. 1 week later, I called him to talk and that I missed him in my life and that we should be friends? because I didn't think he was going to change his mind. He told me he might change his mind but he didn't want to lead me on. 3 days later, I dropped off his stuff outside his apt. 1 weeks later, he was dating another girl. We hadn't had contact since the 1 time I called him, and he never tired to get in contact with me again. So I think I tried? and cried, I don't think I did anything wrong. I really loved him. I don't think I should have to try to manipulate him into wanting to get back with me because I want someone who wants to be with me on their own.
quattrob Posted September 29, 2015 Posted September 29, 2015 This is just how human beings work, say there are 2 paths you can walk. You choose one path but it didn't satisfy you the way you were hoping for or the outcome isn't what you wanted, that's when you wonder what if you took the other path? Would that have been better? It starts to snowball because that opportunity to choose that path is gone. No matter which path you choose, you WILL always wonder if the path you chose was better. I think what you did is normal, begging, pleading and last kiss. Don't be hard on yourself, no matter which path you chose it doesn't change the outcome. I bet you one of these days she'll "wonder" what would've happened if you guys didn't break up. That's just how we humans are.
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