Marcihaynes Posted September 28, 2015 Share Posted September 28, 2015 Ok so as the title says I'm very lost,hurt,confused. Me and my boyfriend of 4 years split up over 2 weeks ago. He went to work and never came home although we did talk the day he left like things were fine. We have 19 month old twin daughters together and I have a 6 and 7 year old he was like a step dad to. Since he left I've called him everyday begging for him to come back , every time I see him I cry and try to talk about us being together. He now says it's gone for him he has no emotions when it comes to us. We ended up having sex when he brought our daughters home this past weekend. When he first left he would tell me "you never know what will happen in the future" and in the next sentence say we are done we will never be back together again. I say things like so never again will we be together and he says no, I don't think so. We would fight and argue about things that now seem to be not much of importance because now I've seen what life is without him and none of the things I would fight with him about matter. He informed me this past week he has started talking and texting someone he met online. He says he had no plans to meet up with her but he gets lonely and wants to see if he can get emotions back. I've been wanting to start the no contact for awhile I just cannot find it in myself to do. I've enrolled myself in school. It's hard going from talking to someone everyday to none at all. Ooh and since he told me he was talking to someone I've started talking to someone and he starting asking details, so I told him . We had a house together and yesterday he informed me he is going to get an apartment. That really hurt me. I don't know what to do. He's fine talking about sex but not a relationship. How can I get him back?? What will make him miss me Link to post Share on other sites
d0nnivain Posted September 28, 2015 Share Posted September 28, 2015 You can't get him back & you should not want him back. How crass. If you chase after him what lessons are you teaching your children? Certainly not self esteem. Go see a lawyer. Find out your twins rights to child support. Move forward from there Link to post Share on other sites
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