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Had sex in my car last night after a party. I met up with him for a dubi and then a little kissing and touching(weve done this before, always in my car?) then it progressed to me trying to sit on top of him but my shorts got in the way once I decided to go for it and then he tried on me and BAM!!! There I was practically under the steering wheel, emergency break under my a**, and feeling totally cheap.

I dont want anything serious with this guy, he seems to show interest here and there but nothing serious. I just feel like hes not going to respect me at all any more (if he ever did) and possibly talk about me.

The problem is that its a guy that lives in my neighborhood and knows EVERYONE.

Since last night he hasnt called, didnt even call to see if I got home ok or found parking and now its 4 pm and again he hasn't reached out. I feel like crap and dont know what I should do. Its not how I wanted to go down.

What should I do?

Michelle ma Belle Established Member

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There's nothing you can do now. The damage is already done. Unfortunately you should have thought about that before you got in his car.

 

I'm going to assume you didn't bother with protection either, right?

 

Chalk it up to a life lesson and one not to be repeated...hopefully.

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lollipopspot Established Member

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What is a "dubi"?

 

It's "doobie."

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Michelle ma Belle Established Member

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In my day it was a joint, pot, weed etc. But who the hell knows what it means today :/

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CarrieT Established Member

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You are doing drugs together and having sex in a car but then concerned about respect?!?!

 

Excuse me, but I think that ship has sailed...

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hellohellohello Member

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I am sorry things didn't go the way you wanted them to :(. I hope you'll feel better soon.

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Nemetona Established Member

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Hopefully the guy put a condom on

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craw Established Member

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Hey! You didn't want anything serious with the guy! Don't feel guilty about having a fling in the car!

 

Now you can cross it off your bucket list! had steamy sex in a car and move onto your next prey!

 

Don't be surprised if he randomly calls you in a week or two for a "repeat" performance.

 

Take plan B, just in case.

 

Also smoking a doob hardly constitutes as doing drugs. NBD.

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lol he's probably been asleep all day hung over. let him find restore his health first and when he gets horny again probably 2 nights later, you might hear from him

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Stillhaventlearned New Member

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I am sorry things didn't go the way you wanted them to :(. I hope you'll feel better soon.

Its just not something ive done before. I havent had sex in 4 years. This was a terrible way to break the drought

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Hey! You didn't want anything serious with the guy! Don't feel guilty about having a fling in the car!

 

Now you can cross it off your bucket list! had steamy sex in a car and move onto your next prey!

 

Don't be surprised if he randomly calls you in a week or two for a "repeat" performance.

 

Take plan B, just in case.

 

Also smoking a doob hardly constitutes as doing drugs. NBD.

Thanks so much. I still feel like crap, even if I dont ewant anything serious it was a thought less moment

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I am sorry things didn't go the way you wanted them to :(. I hope you'll feel better soon.

Thanks hellohello

Grumpybutfun Established Member

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Isn't youth fun? Geez, why be so serious?

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craw Established Member

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Thanks so much. I still feel like crap, even if I dont ewant anything serious it was a thought less moment

 

Did you enjoy the experience?

 

I can imagine why you are feeling a little ****ty, because there wasn't really any communication to be had .

salparadise Established Member

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Are you a member of AAA? You might like the friendly roadside service. Not sure about callbacks the next day...

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What I find funny about this thread is the OP is ignoring all people that asked if the guy used a condom and pointing out the obvious flaw in her decision making, but is very happy for the people that are showing her pity. :laugh:

 

Also smoking a doob hardly constitutes as doing drugs.

 

Wow really? That's like saying having steamy sex in a car with a guy that may have not worn a condom, hardly constitutes she may get pregnant and/or contract an STD/STI. Good logic. Let's keep perpetuating ignorance.

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There's nothing you can do now. The damage is already done. Unfortunately you should have thought about that before you got in his car.

 

I'm going to assume you didn't bother with protection either, right?

 

Chalk it up to a life lesson and one not to be repeated...hopefully.

 

This sounds very judgemental, im already judging myself and feeling ****ty.

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Stillhaventlearned New Member

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He did wear a condom

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Stillhaventlearned New Member

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Thanks for the laugh. I do have AAA!!!

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He did wear a condom

 

He did wear a condom

Dutchman1 Established Member

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It's no season anymore to wear shorts.

 

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Frank2thepoint Established Member

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This sounds very judgemental, im already judging myself and feeling ****ty.

 

Maybe it's the tough love you deserve so you can finally learn from your mistakes and start making better decisions. Everyone has made mistakes in their past. What defines us is if we've made better decisions from those past mistakes.

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Its just not something ive done before. I havent had sex in 4 years. This was a terrible way to break the drought

 

Yeah but trust me I have done worse.

 

Give yourself a break. At least you know it still works! :o

 

Start making better choices.

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