marcusdevilliers Posted September 27, 2015 Posted September 27, 2015 hey guys.. thinking about my ex doesnt really bother me anymore. i dont really dream her much. i think about her when i get up and sometimes when my mind is idle but other than that im not really hurt or feel the hurt. she walked out on me and she left me without trying. as soon as she met new people she pretty much forgot about me and her feelings changed. and shes meeting new people again at school so im sure forgetting about me isnt a problem . but these things dont bother me again really, i mean i dont hate her shes a nice person we had nice times but she kicked me to the curb and the way she was and treated me as of this year was bad. and we were together for 3 years. i just dont really like her if you guys know what i mean, not just for the breakup but for all the other things, for months she never said she wanted to see me or do anything with me, and she put more time in other people. the same girl who said she loved me so much and my bestest friend. but i shes still growing so i dont hate her. i wish her the best and only good things but i dont wanna talk to her or small talk or anything. im not that healed or at a mature level to say i can see her and hug her and have a convo with her, i can try and also do it buts its not sumn id want because she has cut me out of her life. its been like 2 months since break up and 2 weeks of strict N.C that is not gonna be broken. i dont go on facebook and stuff because i dont wanna see other couples and stuff and think bout us, i use to see it and just scroll on but i just want to forget her so im staying off these things. im also really excited about going and and meeting new people and start making new relationships with women. every time i think bout my ex and what we had and stuff i just forget it in my mind, i don think bout it as much again. So am i doing fine or will i fall again and then get back up??. im asking you guys this because im really doing well, i mean the way i was and the way i am now is so diff. i dont even care if i ever see her or talk to her again. she left me for new things and i use to think about it and hurt, but now i think she never did really love me or care or want us that badly. if she did her mind wouldnt have gone so astray. thanks for reading friends .. keep good.
casey.lives Posted September 27, 2015 Posted September 27, 2015 I feel healed because the fire pain on my back that i had for a year is gone. Also, upon making contact with my ex, it resurfaced periodically because he did ****ing weird **** like stalk me and violate me to unbelievable unthinkable extremes, it has subsided greatly. I have come to terms with it's a lifestyle this person has chosen to lead. a negative parasitic lifestyle and it's sad but it's their life. I don't care about people like that. Being healed is the realization that : I DON"T CARE
Meli22 Posted September 27, 2015 Posted September 27, 2015 When you don't have any negative or positive feelings towards them at all. That they are just another human. The break up doesn't bother you at all anymore and the fact they are with someone else doesn't phase you in the slightest. You don't think about them much at all and the relationship becomes just a memory and nothing else. Complete indifference
erklat Posted September 27, 2015 Posted September 27, 2015 When you found someone else you like the same or even better than your ex. It means you healed so much you can fall in love again.
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