toolforgrowth Posted October 1, 2015 Posted October 1, 2015 Yes, but we are talking about probability. say, maybe generally 90% of the times, single is better? Probability is calculated based on many factors. Your 90% figure seems arbitrary. I'll be the first to argue that being single is a wonderful thing. I have no problems not being in a relationship and have chosen to end many of them because they weren't in my best interest. But many wonderful memories were made during each one. I wouldn't choose to eliminate those good memories by going back in time and not entering into those relationships in the first place. The way I see it, life is a pile of good things and bad things. The good things don’t always soften the bad things, but vice versa the bad things don’t always spoil the good things and make them unimportant.
Nikki Sahagin Posted October 1, 2015 Posted October 1, 2015 IMO, it's a gamble. Some people know only misery from their relationships. They are lied to, cheated on, abused, blackmailed, neglected, belittled. Other people have positive experiences and are loved, respected, considered. I can completely understand why people DO choose to be alone. There is nothing wrong with that if what you are finding or getting from other people is bad. There are a lot of great people but also a hell of a lot of selfish, nasty people who will never be right for a relationship. It can do a lot of damage to a person to be hurt in such an intimate emotional way.
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