Calidude6 Posted September 27, 2015 Posted September 27, 2015 We broke up in February and everything has been getting better but I still miss her. If I randomly told her I miss her because I haven't talked to her in a few months, will that look bad? Just to say "I miss you"....
Author Calidude6 Posted September 27, 2015 Author Posted September 27, 2015 How did it end? In a nutshell. She left me for her so called "best friend". I didn't see it coming. We didn't really fight much so it was a surprised. I wonder if she wasn't meant for me? But we were such alike, thought we fit well together.
d0nnivain Posted September 27, 2015 Posted September 27, 2015 What do you mean "does it look bad"? It's how you feel. A kind EX will feel empathy because you are still in pain. A mean one will think "what a wimp". But either way you are honest. From the perspective of you healing, getting over her & moving on it is a step backwards, not forwards, but recovery is not a linear process. Stop beating yourself up. It's done. It's certainly not going to bring her back but perhaps that is the last push you need to fully heal. 2
15Love Posted September 27, 2015 Posted September 27, 2015 Good advice d0nnivain. Are you ok starting back at square one in the event it doesn't go the way you'd like? If so, then fine. But six months isn't nothing. You've come a long way. Maybe consider dating a little bit?
Erik30 Posted September 28, 2015 Posted September 28, 2015 Don't do it. You won't get out of it what you want. You'll be excited for a couple of minutes after you send her the message.... but then you'll be waiting for her reply.... she'll probably ignore it, and you'll end up feeling even worse.
Frank13 Posted September 28, 2015 Posted September 28, 2015 Don't do it. She has a new guy that she left you for. You will only look creepy and pathetic.
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