jack.gf23 Posted September 27, 2015 Posted September 27, 2015 Just looking for some advice here. My ex and I broke up about 4/5 months ago, (she broke up with me), probably was as good a breakup as it could of been in that there was no bad blood or anything and we still get on well whenever we see each other. With that said though, it is well and truly over. Anyway, there's a girl who i'm very much interested in now, and the feeling is reciprocated. Only thing is she is a friend of the ex (not close). Does this present a problem at all? We were never, ever inclined towards each other until the last month or so, and we get on fabulously. Thoughts?
Jules Dash Posted September 27, 2015 Posted September 27, 2015 It's too soon. Personally, I stay away from friends of the ex but at least give it time for you to both be remote memories to each other.
Coraline Posted September 27, 2015 Posted September 27, 2015 I think it's fine. I think the taboo is centered more around serious past relationships of best friends or close friends. I guess it depends where each individual draws the line. How does your new love interest feel about the situation? Because she also needs to be accepting of the circumstances. If it is one sided, that could lead to problems down the road. How frequently do you and your new girl see your ex? That could be a source of awkwardness and jealousy if your friend group is close knit. The farther away the two girls are in their circle of friends, the better. No one enjoys running into their partners ex so if she is okay with growing more distant from her friend that may be what needs to happen for a time before everyone adjusts to your new relationship.
Author jack.gf23 Posted September 27, 2015 Author Posted September 27, 2015 It's too soon. Personally, I stay away from friends of the ex but at least give it time for you to both be remote memories to each other. sorry i should of have mentioned, the ex is now seeing someone else, and in my opinion checked out of the relationship way before she actually dumped me.
ThugLifing Posted September 27, 2015 Posted September 27, 2015 Seems okay to me since they aren't that good of friends. Don't talk about your ex with her though.
Siquijor Posted September 27, 2015 Posted September 27, 2015 I suppose it could be a problem if your ex was the spiteful type by saying to her negative things about you.
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