Jc396 Posted September 26, 2015 Posted September 26, 2015 I'm 23/24 and I just got out of a 5year relationship on August 30. My boyfriend is the one who broke up with me. Mainly cause we outgrew each other and he said I needed to work on my self confidence/self esteem. I was wreck for a week then I started going out again with friends. I followed every post breakup advice I received such as going no contact, getting more active, updating my wardrobe, going out with friends, learning and keeping hobbies. I have kept myself pretty busy and no longer that upset over the breakup anymore once I realized that I do have a life outside the relationship. This past week, I first met a new guy at a social dance. he is really nice and friendly. He is honestly the first person I have had any attraction to for in five years since I got with my ex. It feels exciting to have that initial butterfly feeling about someone after so long. Last night I went out bar hopping with some friends and I noticed this guy kept eyeing me the entire time. I was a little intoxicated and decided to just give him my number and flirt a little. It felt good to get that confidence boost but when I woke up this morning I felt like I'm moving too quick. I know a little flirting after a breakup is fine but how much is too much before I just look pathetic like I'm filling a void?
d0nnivain Posted September 27, 2015 Posted September 27, 2015 It's personal. If you like these guys & enjoy flirting you are fine. If you are sitting there thinking I gotta get a BF I gotta get a BF I can't be alone, it's a problem.
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