Jdeh Posted September 26, 2015 Posted September 26, 2015 Hi all would like some advice I've been in a relationship with someone I've fallen in love with and she said she felt the same.she is still married but her ex husband was abusive to her and they separated year and half ago. We were together for 5months ,I would buy her flowers ,take her for meals and drinks,spend time with her kid ,buy her presents.we never argued once at all.I was slightly insecure because of my last relationship which was 14 years and I found her in bed with my neighbour. We moved in together after only 2 weeks until last week when we broke up. She was always saying we'll have kids one day,get married and for me to move my stuff into her house.gave me akey and made sure i called her house my home,she then asked me to only stay 5 nights week not 7 like it had been. Recently her ex husband told her he had bone cancer. She was fine last Wednesday morning like normal,said love u fittie see you later. Now at 630pm she's telling me were breaking up for good an that's it,now she says don't love u,don't see a future with u,I don't miss u at all,she's acting like she hates me and has even told me to **** off.I've text her twice since and she says don't want u in my life anymore so leave me alone,so I have I'm wondering what she's so angry about and how has she fallen out of love just like that when all I've done is nice to her?
marcusdevilliers Posted September 26, 2015 Posted September 26, 2015 Hi all would like some advice I've been in a relationship with someone I've fallen in love with and she said she felt the same.she is still married but her ex husband was abusive to her and they separated year and half ago. We were together for 5months ,I would buy her flowers ,take her for meals and drinks,spend time with her kid ,buy her presents.we never argued once at all.I was slightly insecure because of my last relationship which was 14 years and I found her in bed with my neighbour. We moved in together after only 2 weeks until last week when we broke up. She was always saying we'll have kids one day,get married and for me to move my stuff into her house.gave me akey and made sure i called her house my home,she then asked me to only stay 5 nights week not 7 like it had been. Recently her ex husband told her he had bone cancer. She was fine last Wednesday morning like normal,said love u fittie see you later. Now at 630pm she's telling me were breaking up for good an that's it,now she says don't love u,don't see a future with u,I don't miss u at all,she's acting like she hates me and has even told me to **** off.I've text her twice since and she says don't want u in my life anymore so leave me alone,so I have I'm wondering what she's so angry about and how has she fallen out of love just like that when all I've done is nice to her? Im sorry bout your situation i know it must be really hard especially when you love someone. look at the situation though, and dont be with someone who doesnt wanna be with you. i made that mistake and it hurts like hell. if someone doesnt want you in there life, then you shouldnt want them in yours. give her some space and and see what she says, if its the same then you know theres nothing there for you.
Author Jdeh Posted September 26, 2015 Author Posted September 26, 2015 Thanks for your reply I will do that,it doesn't hurt nearly as much as my ex of 14years, that was a horrible mountain to climb. I'm wondering if maybe she met someone else and doesn't want to tell me and hurt me because she knows what happened to me last time. Anyway thanks again take care
Hell Yeah Posted September 26, 2015 Posted September 26, 2015 (edited) not sterotyping everyone who has been in an abusive relationship But due to my own personal experience, this is a huge mountain to climb mate, pull away and don't look back. Unless this person is healed as much as possible its not worth the pain, heartache that follows It really has noting to do with who you are or anything in terms of how you were as a partner unless you were an awful non-supportive partner this seed isn't ready to be watered, nor does it want to be. She's not over him, and is still emotionally attached and controlled by him regardless of his condition take care Edited September 26, 2015 by Hell Yeah update 1
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