mac007 Posted May 18, 2005 Posted May 18, 2005 Been talking to a girl in a flirting way. She plays along. But everytime, she always says I am rude. what am i suppose to reply to her. I know she is playing but it just gets tiring to hear her say this. I think it has been twice now. What is a great reply to this person. I think we enjoy each other's conversation but...tia
CaGirl1980 Posted May 18, 2005 Posted May 18, 2005 Well it depends, if it's a hint that she doesn't like talking to you then maybe stop talking to her. If it really bugs you after only hearing it twice maybe you should stop talking to her. If you really want to talk to this girl maybe just tell her nicely you don't like it when she says that.
Merin Posted May 18, 2005 Posted May 18, 2005 Keep in mind theres a line between Flirting and being Vulgar or to suggestive. From your thread I'm not getting the idea you're dating her.. so I would say keep the Flirting a little more innocent and don't let it take on a Sexual tone.. some people are just not all about that and especially if you're not yet dating her, she may be getting the idea that sex is the only thing you're after.
mac007 Posted May 18, 2005 Posted May 18, 2005 thanks for the help. It is nothing suggestive nor sexual in talking with her. In fact it is far from it. It had to do with buying flowers. And afterward she said I was rude. I am not dating her. I told her in fact that I don't want to do anything that would attract her. Tia
Merin Posted May 18, 2005 Posted May 18, 2005 Originally posted by mac007 I told her in fact that I don't want to do anything that would attract her. Maybe thats why she thinks your rude?
laRubiaBonita Posted May 18, 2005 Posted May 18, 2005 Originally posted by mac007 Yes, that is it. so back to my original question. well it is a mean rude thing to say... "that I don't want to do anything that would attract her." Remember: If you can't say anything nice, do not say it at all? that is where that comes from.
Merin Posted May 18, 2005 Posted May 18, 2005 Originally posted by mac007 Yes, that is it. so back to my original question. Back to your orginal question? It is rude.. So why continue to talk to her if you don't like her?
laRubiaBonita Posted May 18, 2005 Posted May 18, 2005 maybe she was speaking in jest when she said you were being rude.
mac007 Posted May 18, 2005 Posted May 18, 2005 I talk to her because she is only a friend. she has called me names so it is not like I she is the victim. names such as, "rude" I don't want to end the friendship nor do I want to change myself. we are only friends. nothing in her appeals me.
SexKitten Posted May 18, 2005 Posted May 18, 2005 Originally posted by mac007 I talk to her because she is only a friend. she has called me names so it is not like I she is the victim. names such as, "rude" I don't want to end the friendship nor do I want to change myself. we are only friends. nothing in her appeals me. maybe by "rude" she means "confusing" or "irritating"? just a thought... also...are you both females? maybe she doesn't want to be hit on by a female, or maybe she does and you are leading her on by flirting and then saying you don't want to be attracted to her.
laRubiaBonita Posted May 18, 2005 Posted May 18, 2005 Originally posted by mac007 I talk to her because she is only a friend. she has called me names so it is not like I she is the victim. names such as, "rude" I don't want to end the friendship nor do I want to change myself. we are only friends. nothing in her appeals me. Yeah....good friend there....... She calls you names, confuses you, but yuou still hang on? I really hope this will not be your pattern for life! Maybe break it off now, telling her it was not a mutually respectful relationship, which you could have with anyone. And then i would opt for a healthier, more supportive friendship with someone i respect and who respects me back.
mac007 Posted May 18, 2005 Posted May 18, 2005 good point. She does know many of my family members. She calls them nice. I am a male. She has called me other names such as irritating and liar, but it is all in good spirit, Thanksk for the info. I will look for my answer to the question somewhere else. thanks again.
SexKitten Posted May 18, 2005 Posted May 18, 2005 Originally posted by mac007 good point. She does know many of my family members. She calls them nice. I am a male. She has called me other names such as irritating and liar, but it is all in good spirit, Thanksk for the info. I will look for my answer to the question somewhere else. thanks again. so what's the "tia" at the end of your posts?
scarlyjones Posted May 18, 2005 Posted May 18, 2005 Real nice friend ya got there.....................calls you a liar,....tells you you're rude.......tells you you're irritating,..yet, you want to be around her more than ever. I'd tell you what that makes me think of YOU, but, you'd probably wanna hang out with me tonight or something.
Merin Posted May 18, 2005 Posted May 18, 2005 Originally posted by mac007 I will look for my answer to the question somewhere else. thanks again. So the real question is.. what's a come back when she says you're rude/liar/idiot whatever right? AND Nobody has said tell her this, that, the other.. Well it seems very immature to continue to speak with someone like this.. and it seems the 2 of you enjoy insulting one another... So my "Best" Come back to her calling you names (that you obvioulsy don't mind) is *Drum Roll* I know you are but what am I? *This was courtsey of My 7 year old daughter*
laRubiaBonita Posted May 18, 2005 Posted May 18, 2005 Good one Merin! High-5 the peep for me! Also you could retort "Yo' Mama!" That is a classic as well.
Merin Posted May 18, 2005 Posted May 18, 2005 Originally posted by laRubiaBonita Good one Merin! High-5 the peep for me! Also you could retort "Yo' Mama!" That is a classic as well.
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