Nemetona Posted September 26, 2015 Posted September 26, 2015 Guy I just went on 2nd date with (the same one I posted about who asked "Is it OK if I pay?") hasn't tried to kiss me yet. That seems a little strange to me. He is very communicative between dates and initiates more dates. Why no attempt to kiss?
Zippy2000 Posted September 26, 2015 Posted September 26, 2015 You probably havent given him any signs of interest to encourage him to do so, or he doesnt know the etiquette of how and when to kiss you.......yet. Relax! Everyone has their own timescale to feel comfortable to do so.
mrldii Posted September 26, 2015 Posted September 26, 2015 I'd take a page out of his book and say, "Do you mind if I kiss you?" Not only would you be mirroring his behavior (bond-creating), you'd also be speaking his Language of Love. It, too, is an open-ended question; his response (whether verbal or physical) will speak volumes (no pun intended) about how he truly feels about you AND who/how he truly is as a person. Good luck!
Redhead14 Posted September 26, 2015 Posted September 26, 2015 Guy I just went on 2nd date with (the same one I posted about who asked "Is it OK if I pay?") hasn't tried to kiss me yet. That seems a little strange to me. He is very communicative between dates and initiates more dates. Why no attempt to kiss? Wait for the third. I don't think it's a big deal after 1st or 2nd date. It's still a little awkward. In fact, I'd be a little put off if he tried to plant one on me on the first date. A nice peck if he really liked me would be OK. If you really want to kiss him, make it clear, look him in the eye and lean in . . . 2
Guyouthere Posted September 26, 2015 Posted September 26, 2015 All of this is about the end result of humans producing offspring to continue the species, so just get on the ball and start the process hehehehe 1
Ami1uwant Posted September 26, 2015 Posted September 26, 2015 He likely is having trouble reading you so he is unsure if you want to kiss. I can't read subtle. Have you two held hands?
Author Nemetona Posted September 26, 2015 Author Posted September 26, 2015 He likely is having trouble reading you so he is unsure if you want to kiss. I can't read subtle. Have you two held hands? no. Maybe he hates me
Guyouthere Posted September 26, 2015 Posted September 26, 2015 no. Maybe he hates me how old are you?
jen1447 Posted September 26, 2015 Posted September 26, 2015 No big deal. Just relax and let it happen or try mrldii's idea if you want to push it. "He doesn't like me" is false bc he wouldn't be talking and setting up dates if he didn't like you. 1
guest569 Posted September 26, 2015 Posted September 26, 2015 Some people are slow movers, don't worry yet. And I wouldn't try to push it 1
No_Go Posted September 26, 2015 Posted September 26, 2015 Insecurity? Maybe he's a little shy. Guy I just went on 2nd date with (the same one I posted about who asked "Is it OK if I pay?") hasn't tried to kiss me yet. That seems a little strange to me. He is very communicative between dates and initiates more dates. Why no attempt to kiss? 1
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