youdunsay Posted September 26, 2015 Posted September 26, 2015 There's a guy who seemed to be interested initially to get to know me. We see each other almost every weekend. He did try to slowly made a move to get near me where I was working out and I was kind of shy so I "slipped away". But I was still doing my same routine every weekend. And I started joining classes so the time I spent at the public workout area has shorten. Today the guy saw me but totally ignore my existence. So I assumed he's not interested anymore?
Frank2thepoint Posted September 27, 2015 Posted September 27, 2015 I think you meant to say "fizzled" in your title. Because that's exactly what happened when you "slipped away" as he was trying to work up the courage to chat you up.
Author youdunsay Posted September 27, 2015 Author Posted September 27, 2015 You're right. What was I writing? In any case, I guess I can strike him off my list? I don't know why but whenever my crush gets closer I tend to get shy and "slipped away".
Frank2thepoint Posted September 27, 2015 Posted September 27, 2015 You're aware of yourself getting shy and slipping away. It means you are insecure about something. Could be that you are scared to feel vulnerable. Don't be so quick to write people off. You could just approach the guy and say hi to him. Strike up a conversation about his exercise routine. Just talk to him as another person you would normally converse with about any random topic. If you begin feeling shy, try to fight the urge to slip away. Just plant your feet and have a conversation.
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