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Basically i confide in her about my past and yeah I know i seemed weak and negative and I told her stuff and she uses it against me and all of a sudden doesnt care about me and she was literally trying to pry the info out of me and I thought I was being nice and it was fine. It was right after i said I LIKED HER things started to go downhill and she starting to want to take control wth? Before I said that she would do anything I said let me screw her many times I want and since I opened up was weak etc... she dumps me says I need to not be a crutch im like wtf!? WHY you TELL ME TO OPEN UP THEN STUpID ****!

 

I am, reading 48 laws of power very intersting stuff this is GREAT advice I need to use on women because I am not SOME KIND OF TAMPON TO BE DISCARDED! and she says I cant mix (fing and feelings) i cant say I like her and take it back like wtf for god sakes was an accident why cant we just be fwb?

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I really don't know what you're getting at here.

 

What exactly did you tell here.

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basically problems in life and about my past and about women how I had trouble trusting them and about my parents things like that. But I want to know I got a questions. Can a woman JUST have sexual attraction for you?

 

Say she isnt romanticlly interested but I become in shape and i show her that next year would she just want me for sex you think?

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basically problems in life and about my past and about women how I had trouble trusting them and about my parents things like that. But I want to know I got a questions. Can a woman JUST have sexual attraction for you?

 

Say she isnt romanticlly interested but I become in shape and i show her that next year would she just want me for sex you think?

 

Oh, I remember! You're going to lose weight, get a hot girl, show THIS girl a pic of the hot girl, all to get THIS girl back. In a year or so.

 

Does that about sum it up?

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[QUOTE=pjm123;6563585]basically problems in life and about my past and about women how I had trouble trusting them and about my parents things like that. But I want to know I got a questions. Can a woman JUST have sexual attraction for you?

 

Say she isnt romanticlly interested but I become in shape and i show her that next year would she just want me for sex you think?

 

Probably not, no.

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why you say that? she said I was best oral I gave her?

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why you say that? she said I was best oral I gave her?

 

Meh. Now that she knows what's good, she can train another guy to do it.

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Buy a horse.

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why you say that? she said I was best oral I gave her?

 

Because she said she's not romantically interested.

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Opening up doesn't have to be a pity party. When i open up to a guy.. he finds out about my ideas and my dreams and the little things that make me me. You obviously weighed her down.

 

My thing is.. talk about sad things, when sad things are happening. Talk about angry things when angry things are happening.. I don't use these things to build closeness .. i FACE THEM and move on.

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Never open up to a woman. You just learnt the hard way as I did almost a decade ago.

 

I've never opened up since and things have been better.

 

Opening up is a sign of weakness to them. I don't agree with that but then again I'm a man.

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Never open up to a woman. You just learnt the hard way as I did almost a decade ago.

 

I've never opened up since and things have been better.

 

Opening up is a sign of weakness to them. I don't agree with that but then again I'm a man.

 

 

I don't know what happened in your past but I can tell you one thing with certainty - women do not think opening up is a sign of weakness - on the contrary.

 

I recently fell very hard for someone that really opened up to me. He was not physically attractive to me at first but when he opened up - I fell and fell hard. Later I discovered he was not the person I thought but that's another story.

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Basically i confide in her about my past and yeah I know i seemed weak and negative and I told her stuff and she uses it against me and all of a sudden doesnt care about me and she was literally trying to pry the info out of me and I thought I was being nice and it was fine. It was right after i said I LIKED HER things started to go downhill and she starting to want to take control wth? Before I said that she would do anything I said let me screw her many times I want and since I opened up was weak etc... she dumps me says I need to not be a crutch im like wtf!? WHY you TELL ME TO OPEN UP THEN STUpID ****!

 

I am, reading 48 laws of power very intersting stuff this is GREAT advice I need to use on women because I am not SOME KIND OF TAMPON TO BE DISCARDED! and she says I cant mix (fing and feelings) i cant say I like her and take it back like wtf for god sakes was an accident why cant we just be fwb?

 

So, basically, you're saying she rejected you for being weak/needy/clingy and doesn't want a relationship with you but you want to continue having sex with her on whatever terms you can get . . .?

 

If in those 48 laws of power, if there is one that addresses the power of dignity, read that one a bunch of times.

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Basically i confide in her about my past and yeah I know i seemed weak and negative and I told her stuff and she uses it against me and all of a sudden doesnt care about me and she was literally trying to pry the info out of me and I thought I was being nice and it was fine. It was right after i said I LIKED HER things started to go downhill and she starting to want to take control wth? Before I said that she would do anything I said let me screw her many times I want and since I opened up was weak etc... she dumps me says I need to not be a crutch im like wtf!? WHY you TELL ME TO OPEN UP THEN STUpID ****!

 

I am, reading 48 laws of power very intersting stuff this is GREAT advice I need to use on women because I am not SOME KIND OF TAMPON TO BE DISCARDED! and she says I cant mix (fing and feelings) i cant say I like her and take it back like wtf for god sakes was an accident why cant we just be fwb?

 

Look up narcissism and see if you recognize some of the other signs on the list.

 

It is likely this is what she is.

 

One site, you can find it, even gives a quiz to test for it (its free and gives immediate results).

 

I would recommend taking it "for her" as she would have answered the 40 questions. You will see if she fits the diagnosis.

 

I took that test for my lady in question, and she scored well above the curve.

 

Not surprising, I took the same test, and scored well below.

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