Author Guyouthere Posted September 26, 2015 Author Posted September 26, 2015 Picking through the trash?? Wow. I know you're upset, so being a woman (i.e. part of the *trash* you're picking through) ... I will try not to take offense to that.... I need to clarify… lol "staying away from the trash that is out there". Ok, thats more like it and what I meant
Author Guyouthere Posted September 26, 2015 Author Posted September 26, 2015 I am thinking this,,,,,,, That she is interested in this new guy,,, that she hasn't returned the ring or other stuff because she wants to "be free", and would rather see me on the side "waiting for her" to figure out what she really wants. I believe it all comes down to that.
katiegrl Posted September 26, 2015 Posted September 26, 2015 I am thinking this,,,,,,, That she is interested in this new guy,,, that she hasn't returned the ring or other stuff because she wants to "be free", and would rather see me on the side "waiting for her" to figure out what she really wants. I believe it all comes down to that. This type of thinking will only keep you *stuck* and prevent you from moving on. As essentially you are still *waiting* and *hoping* that she *comes to her senses*, and realizes what an awesome man you are ... after which you can ride off into the sunset together and live happily ever after. Not likely to happen, but you're obviously not ready to accept this .... so all I can say is wish you luck and hope things work out for ya ......
Gaeta Posted September 26, 2015 Posted September 26, 2015 She is 24 and wild. She is not coming back. If she comes back in a few months it will ONLY be because she's out of resources and she'll use you as a bank. You mentioned you are much older. Time to snap out of it. Look for a woman your age or slightly older. A woman that has it together as much as you do. Someone capable of returning your care and love. Someone who's not going to take advantage of you.
Gaeta Posted September 26, 2015 Posted September 26, 2015 I would like to add. I think she got that ring pounded already.
Author Guyouthere Posted September 26, 2015 Author Posted September 26, 2015 I would like to add. I think she got that ring pounded already. pounded??/ elaborate?
Author Guyouthere Posted September 26, 2015 Author Posted September 26, 2015 She is 24 and wild. She is not coming back. If she comes back in a few months it will ONLY be because she's out of resources and she'll use you as a bank. You mentioned you are much older. Time to snap out of it. Look for a woman your age or slightly older. A woman that has it together as much as you do. Someone capable of returning your care and love. Someone who's not going to take advantage of you. yes, agreed, and immature. I had mistakingly been fooled by her outward appearance, her "mask that she supplied" to me and the world. I think she doesn't understand she is a narcissist, they can't. The early child abuse really messed her up too. No, Im not going to be a bank, never again. She is wise enough to make her own money. Her "high and mighty" claims will only be substantiated IF she returns the things. I won't sit around and wait, I will take any prospects as they come, and I kn ow they will. After all, I believe she already has herself.
Gaeta Posted September 26, 2015 Posted September 26, 2015 pounded??/ elaborate? Sorry I did not translate it properly: pawn shop
Author Guyouthere Posted September 26, 2015 Author Posted September 26, 2015 Sorry I did not translate it properly: pawn shop well if she truly did such a thing, that would most definitely tell me it was surely a piece of **** I saved. But for now, I'll just wait and see what happens, because I don't jump to conclusions either.
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