this is me Posted May 18, 2005 Posted May 18, 2005 My boyfriend and I have been together for a really long time, 3+ years. Yesterday he told me that he thinks we might need some time apart. He said he thinks of me more as a best friend than a girlfriend. But he said he doesn't want to completely end it. That that would be stupid. He says he still loves me and everything. I don't know if he is having some commitment issues being that he is a senior in college and is possibly thinking of a future. Or if he truly means he doesn't want to be together any longer. Any ideas would be greatly appreciated.
rowi1116 Posted May 18, 2005 Posted May 18, 2005 he is a senior in college. how old are you? well, he already stated his view of the relationship. he sees you unfortunately as a friend not a girlfriend. how does he plan not to completely end it? stay friends? friends with benefits? it is pretty clear where he stands on not calling you his offical girlfriend anymore. you should break it off. and give yourself time to decide if YOU feel like you could ever be friends with him. That would be up to you to decide. dont set your self up for hurt good luck
Author this is me Posted May 18, 2005 Author Posted May 18, 2005 I'm a junior in college. he's only a junior in college. I have no idea what his plans are. I asked and he said he didn't think a break would work, but he didn't want to end it either.
noname Posted May 18, 2005 Posted May 18, 2005 this is basically already ended, at least for temporarily. he already told you how he feels. true he may need some time to realize that he wants you back, but you probably don't want to be hanging around for something that he cannot give you. he is probably saying that he does not want to completely break it off either because he is a little confused, or he wants to keep "doing things" with you... move on. try to stay friends. but take care of yourself first...
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