noob_saibot Posted September 25, 2015 Posted September 25, 2015 Just curious to what you all think Do you think its worse to be dumped for someone else and then in time get back together and have to live with the mis trust or situation of what happend? Or To dump someone for someone else and truly realize you made a huge mistake. In time you get back together. But everyone knows what you did and you have to live with being judged or the giult. Like theres always an elephant in the room.? Which end do you thinks worse? I personally think the dumpee end is worse. Because ive never been on the dumper end. Just curious to know what its like for the dumper after they regret n feel terrible. Im trying to figure out how my gf may feel.
Hipster_22 Posted September 25, 2015 Posted September 25, 2015 You want to understand a girls thoughts? Don't even try it. Girls are much more in tune with their emotions compared to guys, you will never know what a girl is thinking. Hell even if they tell you it usually turns out that it's false or they alter it in some way. Do not sit and analyze her thinking, that is a battle you will never win. 1
Meli22 Posted September 25, 2015 Posted September 25, 2015 Id rather be the dumpee in that situation and not have that on my conscience. I'd hate to dump someone and regret it. But I'd never be the dumpee in that situation because I'd never go back
TaraMaiden2 Posted September 25, 2015 Posted September 25, 2015 Just curious to what you all think Do you think its worse to be dumped for someone else and then in time get back together and have to live with the mis trust or situation of what happend? Or To dump someone for someone else and truly realize you made a huge mistake. In time you get back together. But everyone knows what you did and you have to live with being judged or the giult. Like theres always an elephant in the room.? Which end do you thinks worse? You forgot the third scenario: Being dumped and never getting the second chance because the dumper really isn't interested in reconciling, so having to live on 'what ifs' and 'maybe-possiblys' but hoping on a fat chance.... Im trying to figure out how my gf may feel.Don't. It's futile trying to second-guess or Mind-hunt someone else's head. It doesn't work, because it's impossible. Best move on, put it down, let it go, and start again, from now....
newmoon Posted September 25, 2015 Posted September 25, 2015 neither is appealing. but i wouldn't like the first b/c once trust is broken you can't get it back.
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