kroz4 Posted September 25, 2015 Posted September 25, 2015 Hi all. Right now, I'm in just about the worst pain. My very long term friend, more recent SO, who frequently talked about marriage and kids, just broke up with me out of the blue and hasn't contacted me since. He said he's just not into it any more. I've been so understanding, so supportive, and given the length of our friendship before this, I've tried to understand, but this really just knocked me out of my shoes. I'm heartbroken, and just don't understand what's going on. I've made no efforts to contact them after 6 weeks, and I'm not sure what else to do. About 5 months ago, they suddenly went off of all of their meds. Anything is appreciated. My birthday was yesterday and I didn't hear a word.
Author kroz4 Posted September 25, 2015 Author Posted September 25, 2015 hopefully someone with experience with bi-polar individuals can speak to their experience in the relationship and especially afterwards.
mightycpa Posted September 25, 2015 Posted September 25, 2015 I don't have any experience with someone like that, but I've read your story from other people time and again, and I can tell you what they say: relationship was great at first, then it got bad, better, bad, better and everytime it was bad it got worsebreakup came out of nowhere, and person disappearedthey felt addicted to this personextremely difficult to let go... they felt an obsessionthey wanted to understand Does that sound like you? First, unless you are BPD, I doubt you can understand. All you can do is predict. In terms of your future, everybody's best advice in terms of how to deal with it will be : RUN. RUN LIKE THE WIND. DON'T LOOK BACK, NO MATTER HOW HARD IT FEELS.
Author kroz4 Posted September 25, 2015 Author Posted September 25, 2015 Thanks MightyCPA. I am not Borderline or Bi-Polar myself, but many of these things ring true. I just feel like I was thrown away like a used toy by this person, and the real sting is how long we were very good friends.
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