kace Posted September 25, 2015 Posted September 25, 2015 My LDR ex of 3 years dumped me 6 months ago for another woman who he met whilst working abroad. For the first month and a bit I did all the crying and begging and I'm not proud of it. My ex would also get upset on the phone and cry telling me he was confused and that he still loved me etc. I thought he would come back but that wasn't the case. I decided I couldn't take it anymore and started NC 2 months ago which I explained to him and he said ok he was sad but understood. 2 weeks later he emails me to tell me about his new job. He gets angry I don't reply. I remind him about NC and then he emails me telling me he misses me so much it hurts. He emails me again the next day telling me he still loves me and misses me and shares some new music with me and tells me he visited our cat and it made him cry. He kept emailing me every week a similar thing. Yesterday he said that without me in his life there was a huge hole. Then he texted and tried to call me. I finally responded because this was messing me up. I asked what he wanted from me. He said "I don't know I just miss you so much it's killing me". We texted for a bit where he told me he loved me and wished I been more loving a year ago so he wouldn't have left me. I just kept telling him repeatedly that he needs to stop contacting me. But it's like he wouldn't accept it and I still don't think he believes it. The whole time he's sending me this he has been with his gf. Posting publicly on Facebook how much he loves her how beautiful she is that they are getting married etc. I just want to be left alone now. What does he want from me!?
misspersian Posted September 25, 2015 Posted September 25, 2015 all men are greedy like that, I assure!!!!
CaliGypsy Posted September 25, 2015 Posted September 25, 2015 He made his choice. What right does he think he has to dump you for someone else and then think he can keep you as a friend. I would tell him firmly he made his choice he needs to respect that you need to move on and that he needs to stop contacting you. Actions. If he really loved, and missed you so much, he'd be with you.
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