Author whiteshadows Posted September 29, 2015 Author Posted September 29, 2015 If you like her and the first date went well, you should be asking her when she's free within 3 days, if a woman thinks your playing games for making her wait three days and gets shirty, thank the gods you found out now and next her unstable ass immediately. This is about you and the stability of a potential partner, 3 days is fine but a week is way too long, definitely comes across as either uninterested or a player. i know i totally messed up, what do you suggest.
losangelena Posted September 29, 2015 Posted September 29, 2015 i know i totally messed up, what do you suggest. OMFG, what have we been telling you for the last six pages? I think the better question is, what do you want us to tell you? Because you clearly have not heard a satisfactory answer yet.
Author whiteshadows Posted September 29, 2015 Author Posted September 29, 2015 OMFG, what have we been telling you for the last six pages? I think the better question is, what do you want us to tell you? Because you clearly have not heard a satisfactory answer yet. you dint answer my response:P
StocksnBlondes Posted September 29, 2015 Posted September 29, 2015 OP Again your lackadaisical attitude! ****Reread the posts here about suggestions ...you were given several. I think it's a lost cause personally ...she has little invested so why do you think she'll come running back?? You had all those girls flirting with you in front of her ...maybe go ask one of them out. I think this girl is done with your sorry butt.
StocksnBlondes Posted September 29, 2015 Posted September 29, 2015 OP Do you intentionally like to cause drama? Just ckd your posts ...this same thing (going a week without a text) happened beginning of September ...girl must have given you a pass as you actually went on a date Sept 14th. Now you do the same thing again??!!! Wth ... How many times do you need to learn the same lesson? This isn't normal behavior from a mature individual who's ready for a relationship ...this girl isn't needy ...she doesn't care for your drama and I don't blame her. Grow up. Don't use the excuse you're too busy to text. I have a saying "what gets done is rewarding" so texting this girl isn't rewarding to you because possibly you don't really want a relationship ...think about your own motives ...she's onto you ...you just aren't self aware.
Author whiteshadows Posted September 29, 2015 Author Posted September 29, 2015 (edited) OP Do you intentionally like to cause drama? Just ckd your posts ...this same thing (going a week without a text) happened beginning of September ...girl must have given you a pass as you actually went on a date Sept 14th. Now you do the same thing again??!!! Wth ... How many times do you need to learn the same lesson? This isn't normal behavior from a mature individual who's ready for a relationship ...this girl isn't needy ...she doesn't care for your drama and I don't blame her. Grow up. Don't use the excuse you're too busy to text. I have a saying "what gets done is rewarding" so texting this girl isn't rewarding to you because possibly you don't really want a relationship ...think about your own motives ...she's onto you ...you just aren't self aware. ive said multiple times that i wanted to her to text first for once. Edited September 29, 2015 by whiteshadows
Author whiteshadows Posted September 29, 2015 Author Posted September 29, 2015 OP Do you intentionally like to cause drama? Just ckd your posts ...this same thing (going a week without a text) happened beginning of September ...girl must have given you a pass as you actually went on a date Sept 14th. Now you do the same thing again??!!! Wth ... How many times do you need to learn the same lesson? This isn't normal behavior from a mature individual who's ready for a relationship ...this girl isn't needy ...she doesn't care for your drama and I don't blame her. Grow up. Don't use the excuse you're too busy to text. I have a saying "what gets done is rewarding" so texting this girl isn't rewarding to you because possibly you don't really want a relationship ...think about your own motives ...she's onto you ...you just aren't self aware. she onto me about what:S
ExpatInItaly Posted September 30, 2015 Posted September 30, 2015 ive said multiple times that i wanted to her to text first for once. And we've mentioned multiple times that your approach to getting what you want isn't working. Where is she now? Not with you. I don't know what else to tell you. You're wasting time here. Have you reached out to her since you started this thread? If not, you're your own worst enemy. Some other guy is going to snatch her up, if he hasn't done so already.
Author whiteshadows Posted September 30, 2015 Author Posted September 30, 2015 And we've mentioned multiple times that your approach to getting what you want isn't working. Where is she now? Not with you. I don't know what else to tell you. You're wasting time here. Have you reached out to her since you started this thread? If not, you're your own worst enemy. Some other guy is going to snatch her up, if he hasn't done so already. Im gonna contact her soon but yeah it might be to late already
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