K2z Posted September 24, 2015 Posted September 24, 2015 Thai girlfriend. Together three years, maybe 60% of it long distance, she moved to the Asian country where I was living. My whole backstory is buried somewhere in this forum. Chief complaint upon breakup (she dumped) was waiting too long to marry and her "feeling bad" about helping her parents financially. (This is a big boo boo in Thai culture, trust me.) She said she was moving to another country to work. One month ago: Sent an email laying out a whole plan for marriage, life together, support, etc. One week ago: An email asking if she'd gotten the email. No response to either. Nada. I do not know what country she is in. I desperately want to contact one or two friends and ascertain that she at least got the email. I know it's a bad idea. As final as the above details sound, I cling to filaments of hope. I have to right now. The chief among them being that no response is "not no." Wouldn't she be able to say no if she were in that state of mind? Is this just the "Thai" way of saying no? No response is the response? I don't know. And yet I hope.
Author K2z Posted September 24, 2015 Author Posted September 24, 2015 Seriously, this combination of desire to hear something and the urge to "do something" has me at the limit of my sanity. I am being ghosted. At least for now.
EO422 Posted September 25, 2015 Posted September 25, 2015 Leave her, answers will come with time. If they don't come then you will just have naturally moved on
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