woggy Posted September 24, 2015 Posted September 24, 2015 She ended things with me almost a week ago, saying she just couldn't handle a relationship and or being in a relationship wasn't enjoyable right now. Shortly before she ended it, she started doing things in our relationship that she knew made me uncomfortable. Such as hanging out with guys alone, even I should I believe she didn't cheat since she told me this on her own. But she knew it made me uncomfortable and even admitted that early in our relationship she wouldn't have done that. So I go no contact, two days later she text me and this conversation ensues. Brrd - Album on Imgur Now three days after that conversation she just texted me saying only " I love you ". I'm still hurting but things have gotten better for me. I kinda started to realize she kinda stopped caring how I feel towards the end of the relationship and now makes me mad to think about. I do entertain the idea of us getting back together, whether that's wrong and stupid I don't know. Should I just ignore it completely or respond? If so how do I?
TaraMaiden2 Posted September 24, 2015 Posted September 24, 2015 Friend, you not only ignore it TOTALLY - but you actually block her and delete her number, contact details and name from your phone, facebook, email, skype, and whatever else you have as a means of connecting with her and vice-versa. if she wanted to be with you, she would be. As it is, she's just using you as an emotional cushion/teddy bear, to get HER through HER crap. Read the NC Guide/link in my signature. If you don't do this now, I promise you, you WILL be driven batcrap crazy by all this. Seriously.
pidgeon1010 Posted September 24, 2015 Posted September 24, 2015 That conversation went on too long. She broke up with you and the consequences for that is she can't talk to you whenever she wants. Stop responding to breadcrumbs. She is having her cake and eating it too. IGNORE. 1
lolablue17 Posted September 24, 2015 Posted September 24, 2015 I kinda started to realize she kinda stopped caring how I feel towards the end of the relationship and now makes me mad to think about. Just a small correction - She doesn't care about your feelings not only towards the end of your relationship, but now too!
Oregon_Dude Posted September 24, 2015 Posted September 24, 2015 She's hooking up with new men. She's texting you when she's not with them. When she's bored. You're the backup plan. You're the shoulder to cry on. You are her friend, her pet. That's all you are. Do with that what you will.
NopeNah Posted September 25, 2015 Posted September 25, 2015 I cringed reading all her "I want(s)"! Kinda threw up in my mouth. I,myself, want a lot of things...I don't always get those things.
Simon Phoenix Posted September 25, 2015 Posted September 25, 2015 Dude, don't fall for that crap again. That was completely selfish on her part. She doesn't care about anything but her wants and needs. She sucks. Stop enabling the suckage.
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