So if you got dumped by a girl for being weak and opening up (also I am overweight)..

[pjm123]

If I get in shape, and just bring a positive vibe no matter what, get my career set and get a hotter girlfriend would she come back to me if I hit her up in a year or 2 interest comes back?

[LilaMarie]

would she come back to me if I hit her up in a year or 2 interest comes back?

 

 

Only time has the answer.

[CarrieT]

In a year or two, you won't be interested in her....

[pjm123]

Nah she is cool to kick it with and we both watch wrestlin

 

So what should i do? Get in shape and hotter gf take a picture send it to her next year,

[ManyDissapoint]

There's a hundred reasons why she left you, and a hundred reasons why she got with you in the first place. Having a ripped body can make a lot but not all women want you. But yes, getting with a hotter woman is kryptonite to an EX-GURLFREN.

 

What I'm unsuccessfully trying to say is that you should get into shape anyway. Being overweight essentially ruins your life.

[MidwestUSA]

Nah she is cool to kick it with and we both watch wrestlin

 

So what should i do? Get in shape and hotter gf take a picture send it to her next year,

 

You want to get a hotter girlfriend, take a pic of her and send it to the one who dumped you?

 

Yea, she'll take you back.

[pjm123]

Well she will be jealous and want me back???

[losangelena]

I'm guessing ... no.

[Buddhist]

If I get in shape, and just bring a positive vibe no matter what, get my career set and get a hotter girlfriend would she come back to me if I hit her up in a year or 2 interest comes back?

 

I can guarantee that if you did all of that, then you probably wouldn't want her back. Either way, the answer is yes go ahead and improve yourself and forget about her.

[pjm123]

We have smililar interest. How can i get her jealous aftet i do this stuff without being obvious? When i text her

[pjm123]

Whats the best route to go? Obvious jealousy would make her mad.how do you do it when u contacther?

[ExpatInItaly]

Your attempt to make her jealous will only look desperate and weird. Not going to work,

[pjm123]

Ok well how do you do indirect jealousy?

[RightThere]

Ok well how do you do indirect jealousy?

 

First you need to give a crap what other people think.

 

Then you need to post all over social media how much better your life is compared to everyone else.

 

Practice duck faces and selfies.

 

Also buy a real loud and temporarily fashionable dress shirt. Leave it untucked and roll up the sleeves a bit.

 

Get really into craft beers and scoff at those you drink regular draft beer.

 

Try saying "dude" a lot more. Maybe add some more hi-fives to friends.

[neowulf]

If I get in shape, and just bring a positive vibe no matter what, get my career set and get a hotter girlfriend would she come back to me if I hit her up in a year or 2 interest comes back?

 

Honestly? Odds are in two years, she'll be in a new relationship. 2 years is a long time man.

 

If you're going to do those things you say, do them for yourself, not for someone else.