menyou Posted September 24, 2015 Posted September 24, 2015 When does a daily text/phone call begin to look obligatory?
Jules Dash Posted September 24, 2015 Posted September 24, 2015 After you become boyfriend/girlfriend Definitely wouldn't engage in daily anything until this point is reached no matter how safe it seems.
Author menyou Posted September 24, 2015 Author Posted September 24, 2015 Ok. I've been exclusive with this guy for 3 months (he asked me) I call him my "boyfriend". We do not talk/text everyday but sometimes it seems like every once in awhile he will text or call just "because" and when I respond it's dead air. Lol If I have nothing to ask/say etc I don't contact. I don't find it pertinent to reach out just to reach out. 1
mystikmind2005 Posted September 24, 2015 Posted September 24, 2015 Ok. I've been exclusive with this guy for 3 months (he asked me) I call him my "boyfriend". We do not talk/text everyday but sometimes it seems like every once in awhile he will text or call just "because" and when I respond it's dead air. Lol If I have nothing to ask/say etc I don't contact. I don't find it pertinent to reach out just to reach out. Hallelujah! most intelligent post on texting i have seen so far
Zippy2000 Posted September 24, 2015 Posted September 24, 2015 Different strokes for different folks! It really depends who you`re dating. I had been dating one girl and she text me everyday. Some people think thats sweet but others think thats too much. The girl Im seeing now only initiates texts when I check back on her texts. She tends to text once a week. Again it depends on the person you are seeing and their personnailty types. For exampl you may be an axious type personality so you need reassurance and validation through test but your boyfriend maybe avoidant. It means he feels he needs his own space. You`ll find out what type of person he is. Look at your texting history on your phone to find out.
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