JJaneDoe Posted September 24, 2015 Posted September 24, 2015 I'm new to this whole forum thing, but I'm in desperate need of some advice. Let me start off by saying my bf and I are both in our early 20's, we've been together for 8 years (very rare these days - I know!), no kids, and still living at home. We get along for the most part, but for the past few months we haven't had much of a sex life. I feel people our age should be going at it like jack rabbits (lol) I thought maybe it was just me because I've never had much of a sex drive anyways so I went to my doc for this issue and she prescribed me meds to help. Needless to say I try to come on to him more....but sometimes it does me no good. He never makes the first move and I feel like sex should be mutual. We've talked about it and he says he just doesn't think about it, but what kind of 24 yr old guy doesn't think about sex??? I don't really know what to think about all of this or what to do? Any suggestions on how to make your high school sweetheart fall in love with you all over again?
shet Posted September 24, 2015 Posted September 24, 2015 Sex goes stale for most couples. The usual bull**** artists will protest this and say they've been together 10 years and still **** thrice daily, ignore them, 99% of relationships cool off in the bedroom in the end. 8 years is way ahead of the curve, frankly. The 24yo guy who doesn't think about sex is the 24yo guy who's been banging the same girlfriend since he was 16. I can not imagine having led my life through that period like that, can't really grasp it, can't offer advice. You're a very singular couple.
Nikki Sahagin Posted September 24, 2015 Posted September 24, 2015 I've never been with someone for 8 years. Are you still attracted to each other? Do you have high sex drives generally? Do you want to stay together or does one or both of you want to be single/cheat? Do you spend much time apart?
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