What can i do to make my boyfriend more affectionate?

[lahotgrl]

My boyfriend and I have been dating for a year now. He use to be so affectionate but lately he has been so distant. When we go out he does not hug me or kiss me at all anymore. At night when we get home he goes to sleep without a kiss or even a good night. I seriously do not think that he is cheating on me, but i do not know what i am doing wrong.

 

I feel like i am putting so much effort into this relationship and i am getting nothing in return. I have talked to him numerous times about the issue. I tell him how i am feeling however he changes for like 3-4 days, then returns back to normal.

 

Some of my friends told me that i should play hard to get and that he will eventually see what he is missing and start changing. Well i tried that and it seems to have back fired on me.

 

DOES ANYONE HAVE ANY ADVICE FOR ME? PLEASE

 

Thank you,

lahotgrl

[Marshbear]

If you are not getting out of the relationship what you want or need then is it really a healthy one ( for you )? If you have talked to him about it but you don't see any real change then you need to make him see the gravity of the situation. You might even need to see a professional. You need to make him see that you are not happy and changes need to be made if you are to continue with him. He probably doesn't realize that you really mean business so make sure he knows. Tell him what you told us...