RedKimono Posted September 23, 2015 Posted September 23, 2015 I was seeing a man for three years. I suspect he is a narcissist, on top of being a stubborn Taurus. No disrespect to any Taureans, but my ex is über stubborn! We had many good times, but many bad as well. He cursed me out over him going away with his friends for the day. I asked who, and he told me they were from our country, and did not know them. I don't see why he couldn't say: Jim, Bob, Joe. Anyhoo, we got into an argument over it, and he told me, "Go be someone else's misery." That cut me to the quick. Two days later he liked my pic on IG. A day later he deleted it. It sent me into a rage, and I left him a voicemail, and sent him a text telling him I loathed him, and for him never to contact me again. I blocked him on all social media, and blocked his phone number. Why did he like then unlike my pic? It is three days NC. I don't expect him to reach out, but am in a world of pain. I guess I'm just venting, and sharing my story with you all.
Seth0194 Posted September 24, 2015 Posted September 24, 2015 Who really knows why he liked it to unlike it. I would think to get a rise out of you as it seems like you two were at odds. As for a world of hurt only you can determine that, what are you willing to do? Are you done? Can you fix it or do you even want to? It sounds like you are done but have some emotions still there. Best of luck to you. 1
mightycpa Posted September 24, 2015 Posted September 24, 2015 (edited) I don't know about the idea that people who share his birthday turn into complete *******s (boy, if it was only that simple), but he sure sounds like one, at least the way he treats you. Not sure how he is with Jim, Bob and Joe, but to hear you tell it, he doesn't like you very much. Maybe this is new, maybe not. I can't tell from what you've written, but I'm guessing this is perhaps a new escalation from his previous assholishness. So, given that, I wonder if you'd do me the favor of telling me what a great guy he is, and how wonderful he is to you and list all of those good traits that he exhibits that made you fall in love with him. Then, if you can follow up with what percentage of the time you see those traits, and what percentage of the time you see what you wrote about, I think you'll be ready to explain why you shouldn't really miss him. After that, it is just a matter of getting your heart to see the light. That can take some time, and it is not an easy process, but your heart will come around if you insist on being treated well. In other words, **** him. It frosts my balls when I read how people are mistreated and they continue to long for the mistreater. There are icicles practically forming right now. Edited September 24, 2015 by mightycpa 1
Author RedKimono Posted September 24, 2015 Author Posted September 24, 2015 Who really knows why he liked it to unlike it. I would think to get a rise out of you as it seems like you two were at odds. As for a world of hurt only you can determine that, what are you willing to do? Are you done? Can you fix it or do you even want to? It sounds like you are done but have some emotions still there. Best of luck to you. Thank you so much. I feel ambivalent. I want things to work, but with the eay things ended I don't want to contact him, and I blocked him anyway. He definitely did get a rise out of me. How embarrassing!
Author RedKimono Posted September 24, 2015 Author Posted September 24, 2015 I don't know about the idea that people who share his birthday turn into complete *******s (boy, if it was only that simple), but he sure sounds like one, at least the way he treats you. Not sure how he is with Jim, Bob and Joe, but to hear you tell it, he doesn't like you very much. Maybe this is new, maybe not. I can't tell from what you've written, but I'm guessing this is perhaps a new escalation from his previous assholishness. So, given that, I wonder if you'd do me the favor of telling me what a great guy he is, and how wonderful he is to you and list all of those good traits that he exhibits that made you fall in love with him. Then, if you can follow up with what percentage of the time you see those traits, and what percentage of the time you see what you wrote about, I think you'll be ready to explain why you shouldn't really miss him. After that, it is just a matter of getting your heart to see the light. That can take some time, and it is not an easy process, but your heart will come around if you insist on being treated well. In other words, **** him. It frosts my balls when I read how people are mistreated and they continue to long for the mistreater. There are icicles practically forming right now. Thank you so much for your response. I hope I did not offend with mentioning his astrological sign. I am into astrology, and make correlations from time-to-time on people's behaviors. But of course nothing is definite based on personality, moon sign, upbringing, and the list can go on. When you put it that way you have, I am a fool. If I valued myself I would have left after three months, instead of three years. And I wouldn't have waited to be discarded. I guess because of how we started, I stupidly kept thinking things would get better. I am going to take this slowly, my heart needs some healing. Thanks again!
Author RedKimono Posted September 25, 2015 Author Posted September 25, 2015 He called me from a private number yesterday, and said he missed me. I blocked him from all of my social media, and cell phone. I doubt I will hear from him again. It broke my heart hearing his voice. So many emotions flooded my heart, and mind. I did not return the call, but it hurts like hell.
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