CaliGypsy Posted September 24, 2015 Posted September 24, 2015 I agree with you. Have you experienced one of these, or both I know it seems crazy, but yes to both. I'll err initially on the side of extreme connection. I met him 8 years ago. I can remember so clearly the moment I met him. I had no idea what was in store. We've had our share of ups and downs, we've been together then apart then together. I still feel that same connected feeling. 1
shet Posted September 24, 2015 Posted September 24, 2015 It's not as simple as that. The person you fall for in an instant is not even necessarily "hot". It's like instantly connecting in a big way with somebody as a friend, except that you also want to sleep with this person and the feeling is altogether more intense. You asked the question. Now you're pursuing an agenda. You don't want points of view, you want validation of what you believe.
MissBee Posted September 24, 2015 Posted September 24, 2015 whats this hand shaking crap. I always get and give a hug and kiss on the cheek. I never get a hand shake. thats too cold. I don't do that to complete strangers. Depending on the context like if they're a friend of a close friend and I've met them at a party or other social gathering then I might hug them. But in most other contexts I shake hands with people I've just met. With the guy I was talking about a hand shake was way more appropriate for the context than him initiating a hug and kiss when I had never met him before in my life.
neowulf Posted September 25, 2015 Posted September 25, 2015 Love? No... Intense, magnetic attraction? You bet. Some of my earlier girlfriends, I knew within 5 minutes I'd be dating them.
Ami1uwant Posted September 25, 2015 Posted September 25, 2015 I don't believe in love at first sight..... I do believe you can have instant chemistry but that is no guarantee that there will be a relationship. You two may be too different for a relationdhip. I have had instant chemistry only a few times in my life....romantic relationships never came from them.
WonderKid Posted September 25, 2015 Posted September 25, 2015 I'll be honest the first thing I look at and think is "Yes I'd **** her". But that's just me. It'll take more for me to love someone.
Popsicle Posted September 25, 2015 Posted September 25, 2015 Yes, absolutely....and it has happened to me. It's so powerful and awesome. *sigh* 2
Hopeful30 Posted September 25, 2015 Posted September 25, 2015 Not first SIGHT, because a person's appearance doesn't determine what kind of human being they are. Upon first MEETING, yes, I believe in that. When you communicate with someone (and don't just look at them) you exchange energies, and sometimes your energies have such great chemistry. Has it happened to me before? Not on the level of falling in love, no. But I have met strangers with whom I've clicked right away and we became instant friends (until this day).
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