kiterider12 Posted September 22, 2015 Posted September 22, 2015 I have gone on three good dates with this one girl Date 1: Dinner, it was good Date 2: trip to the beach, it was amazing. She texted me all night saying she was thinking of me and looking forward to seeing me again Date 3: Dinner and drinks in her home town, went well. She said she was really having fun getting to know me, hadn't laughed that hard in a long time and wanted to hang out with some specific hiking ideas. Last weekend she went to a music festival. We were unable to meet up last week and i didnt expect to hear from her at all while she was away. Do I??? A) Wait for her to call/text me to hang out?? If so how long do I wait?? B) Do I call/text her to go out again with specific date plans...and how long do I wait??
LilaMarie Posted September 22, 2015 Posted September 22, 2015 I feel like it should be like job hunting. Be proactive. What's the worst that can happen? Goooooooood luck!
Qboro90 Posted September 22, 2015 Posted September 22, 2015 Send her a text. After three dates you have a pretty good idea that she's Into you so you don't need to play the waiting game or "don't wanna come on too strong" act. "Heyy what's going on.... How was the festival??l Done 1
Zippy2000 Posted September 22, 2015 Posted September 22, 2015 Send her a text. After three dates you have a pretty good idea that she's Into you so you don't need to play the waiting game or "don't wanna come on too strong" act. "Hey what's going on.... How was the festival??l Done I agree with this. Ask her how things went to start a conversation and you can then sign post her to a date. Be proactive and show your interest. I get what you mean how long should you wait? Diffilcult one as you dont want to come across as overly keen. Maybe wait a day or two.
katiegrl Posted September 22, 2015 Posted September 22, 2015 Send her a text. After three dates you have a pretty good idea that she's Into you so you don't need to play the waiting game or "don't wanna come on too strong" act. "Heyy what's going on.... How was the festival??l Done This^^^ except leave out "what's going on"? Ask her about the festival, and if she'd like to get together for dinner this week. 1
travelbug1996 Posted September 22, 2015 Posted September 22, 2015 Ask her out by tomorrow if you want to see her for the weekend. That way hopefully she hasn't already made plans.
central Posted September 22, 2015 Posted September 22, 2015 If you haven't already, next date at least kiss her.
Redhead14 Posted September 22, 2015 Posted September 22, 2015 Send her a text. After three dates you have a pretty good idea that she's Into you so you don't need to play the waiting game or "don't wanna come on too strong" act. "Heyy what's going on.... How was the festival??l Done Lose the what's going on part . 1
Disconnect Posted September 22, 2015 Posted September 22, 2015 Leave out the 'what's going on'. And drop the '!?!?', it kind of implies her festival was weird, and it looks cretinous.
empresario Posted September 22, 2015 Posted September 22, 2015 Why do guys think they need to wait for a female to contact them...like it's some sort of test of desire. Ask her out again. It's as simple as that. I would say 75% of women will not make a move regardless of how long you wait. More likely, they will come on this forum and start a thread titled "He went cold...does he still like me?" 5
Maggie4 Posted September 22, 2015 Posted September 22, 2015 You want to see her but you act as if you don't. This is why I think men are weird.
Vintage79 Posted September 22, 2015 Posted September 22, 2015 3 dates and no sex = leave and don't look back... ...kinds of...
Karimikui Posted September 22, 2015 Posted September 22, 2015 3 dates and no sex = leave and don't look back... ...kinds of... are you serious?
Karimikui Posted September 22, 2015 Posted September 22, 2015 You want to see her but you act as if you don't. This is why I think men are weird. Yeah but surely there is no reason she cannot ask him out if she is interested in him. Why must he do all the chasing?
Qboro90 Posted September 22, 2015 Posted September 22, 2015 Lose the what's going on part . lol really? It's not that serious. "Yea I stopped talking to him because he asked me what's going on and used 2 question marks instead of 1.... What a psycho!!!"
Author kiterider12 Posted September 23, 2015 Author Posted September 23, 2015 Thanks all! I texted her tonight to see how her fest. was. I dont expect to hear from her untill tomorrow. Depending on the reply i will ask her out again. To do this, should i call her like i have every other time or should i text her?
Qboro90 Posted September 23, 2015 Posted September 23, 2015 Thanks all! I texted her tonight to see how her fest. was. I dont expect to hear from her untill tomorrow. Depending on the reply i will ask her out again. To do this, should i call her like i have every other time or should i text her? Calling is more personal and the classy way to go about it. When she replies to your text or gets back to you then you can just say "hey glad to hear it was fun, Im working now but if you're free later I can call you once I leave, lemme kno"
Author kiterider12 Posted September 23, 2015 Author Posted September 23, 2015 Thanks ya'll. I texted her. She had a great time. Asked her to hang out. She said shes working late all week to visit her brother in Chicago. I told her is up to her, she said she would love to hang out and keep things going when she has free time........so ima start running for the hills on this one. Any suggestions on witty comebacks ??
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