UntitledNotepad Posted September 22, 2015 Posted September 22, 2015 Hola Vatos Locos, (this is NOT the girl with the restraining order problem, its a different one) So 4 months ago this girl approached me, we dated, then she left for the summer and we lost communication. Then a week ago I texted her "hey its been so long! how are things?" 2 days later she replies "yes it has been really long! my summer was nice, but pretty busy with things, how was yours?" She sent that in the morning, and then at night I replied by saying some things i did over the summer, complimented one of her photos, and asked a question. No reply for 4 days... So I figured, ok, she must be 10000% done with me. that's cool. I'm just gonna send her one last "goodbye" message to end things on a good foot. I basically said "hmmmm ok well if you ever need help with [common interest] let me know!" Then literally 1 minute later she replies with 2 huge paragraphs. it was a message so big i could only read half of it on facebook without scrolling! she replied to my questions, elaborated a lot more than needed (not just "yes" but "omg yes!! that was so cool how he said that! i couldnt believe it at first but it makes sense now!"), and said that she would definitely ask me if she needed help with our common interest. ***Also, she wrote an entire sentence apologizing for not replying sooner and she said that she was really busy and hadn't been on FB for a while. So I thought...hmm...maybe we do still have a chance together? And then I sent a reply a day later saying "wow thats amazing" to the things she told me in the previous message, and then commented on common interest, and then gave her a compliment. ***I did not ask her a specific question though. Well now it has been 2 days and she has neither "seen" the message or replied. Question #1: Did she not say anything back because that was sort of the end of the conversation, and saying "thank you!' to the compliment would be weird? or is she suddenly trying to tell me she is not interested, despite writing 2 paragraphs before? Question #2: Should I just leave it, or should I send another message in a few days? What should I say? Also, for what it's worth, from her twitter she seems to be going through some problems. she posted things like "i never thought id be this vulnerable" and stuff like that. obviously 100% not because of anything I did to her, but I feel like she might be giong through some type of break up or something.....(maybe something that happened over summer during no contact?) I just don't know. I am clueless about dating, all i know is that I like her a lot.
Author UntitledNotepad Posted September 22, 2015 Author Posted September 22, 2015 (the whole restraining order posts i made before were trolling, sorry, it was my way of coping!! haha)
bluefeather Posted September 22, 2015 Posted September 22, 2015 (the whole restraining order posts i made before were trolling, sorry, it was my way of coping!! haha) You actually made up fake stories for discussion here?
Author UntitledNotepad Posted September 22, 2015 Author Posted September 22, 2015 You actually made up fake stories for discussion here? oops i apologize, at least i was honest
menyou Posted September 22, 2015 Posted September 22, 2015 Wait, what? You made things up on here? And we, not me, took time to respond to you with our wisdom and knowledge and you now admit to being a troll???!!!! Get on your knees and tell us you love us.....
Author UntitledNotepad Posted September 22, 2015 Author Posted September 22, 2015 Wait, what? You made things up on here? And we, not me, took time to respond to you with our wisdom and knowledge and you now admit to being a troll???!!!! Get on your knees and tell us you love us..... Truly, I LOVE YOU GUYS!! <3 <3 <3 You have no idea how weird these last few months have been for me, and y'all made it better. I wasn't trolling for the hell of it, it was therapeutic. Back on topic though.... what do you guys think? 1
menyou Posted September 22, 2015 Posted September 22, 2015 Truly, I LOVE YOU GUYS!! <3 <3 <3 You have no idea how weird these last few months have been for me, and y'all made it better. I wasn't trolling for the hell of it, it was therapeutic. Back on topic though.... what do you guys think? It's still all about you, eh?
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