Camaro Guy Posted September 22, 2015 Posted September 22, 2015 As I dive deeper into the world of sex and dating, I have found it necessary to draw strict boundaries on what you will do and what you will not do. Over the past couple of months, I have come to the conclusion that girls have found me attractive. I don't know what changed other than me losing my virginity but it seems like it's been pouring the past few months. A couple of weeks ago, I was involved with a girl that I was incredibly hesitant to cut the cord with. She was amazing in bed and she was super fun...but she wanted to not use condoms. Some people here said it was because she was experiencing primal attraction and couldn't help it. I backed off because I don't like taking advantage of people. On Friday, I ran into a situation where a girl was clearly intoxicated. She threw up on the sidewalk and demanded to go back to my place. I refused. Not only could I get slapped with a rape accusation but it just isn't right. I now know that there is stuff I will and will not do. - I will not tell a girl lies intentionally to get her into bed. - I will not intentionally "cut a girl down" just to make her feel insecure because I didn't get my way. (I have friends that do this. Nasty, nasty behavior) - On early dates, I will not explicitly touch girls (like legs, ass... again I have friends who move in for the kill on first dates) - I will not have sex with severely intoxicated women. - I will not get a girl drunk to simply have sex with her - I will not explicitly demand a girl to pay on early dates, it is her decision. I have not had any problems with this so far, as most pay for their own stuff on the second date on. - I will not intentionally make a girl feel bad about herself post-sex. - I will offer for a girl to stay the night or if she asks me to stay the night, I will unless I have something planned the next day. These are some of them. This can be a really messy arena, and lots of hearts can get broken really fast. I want no part of that. I just want to have fun and enjoy the vibe. Do you have any dating ethics that you adhere to? 1
Clarence_Boddicker Posted September 22, 2015 Posted September 22, 2015 (edited) They already have one: "All is fair in love & war." A lot of people feel that if feelings are involved, ethics & morals can go out the window. For me personally, it's easy. I have to look at myself in the mirror. I'm not going to violate my ethical & moral code for stuff like easy sex. Edited September 22, 2015 by Clarence_Boddicker
d0nnivain Posted September 22, 2015 Posted September 22, 2015 You sound like a good guy. I'm glad to see you know your own boundaries. Mine was more simple: do unto others. I wouldn't want somebody to take advantage of me or be intentionally mean so I don't do those things. 1
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