Stage5Clinger Posted September 21, 2015 Posted September 21, 2015 I've been going on dates with this girl for quite a while now but it's never escalated to sex. I'm not ready for it. She definitely wants it and keeps hinting/pushing for it. She recently invited me to this overnight thing and I reluctantly agreed. Slept with my pants on to prevent any night wood situation and was pretty distant all night. Unfortunately she got sick so I woke up to some gross stuff going on in the bathroom very close by. Now I'm really having trouble being attracted to her and I think it's over before it began. I feel awful and I'm going to have a really hard time telling her. She's really nice to me and I'm a very lonely guy so I was really hoping things could play out.
Oregon_Dude Posted September 21, 2015 Posted September 21, 2015 This thread reads like a set-up for a joke. Thanks for the laffs, OP. 2
salparadise Posted September 21, 2015 Posted September 21, 2015 Dude, how old are you? Are you a virgin? Why are you holding out? You said you've been going out awhile and you really like her. Most guys would be, well, more accommodating. If she's ripe to bump uglies and you're acting like a demure debutante... some other guy is likely to pluck that right from under your nose. Your man card might be in jeopardy. What the deal?
Jules Dash Posted September 21, 2015 Posted September 21, 2015 Your decreased attraction could be short term especially once she is finally riding you so don't make a hasty decision.
Author Stage5Clinger Posted September 21, 2015 Author Posted September 21, 2015 Dude, how old are you? Are you a virgin? Why are you holding out? You said you've been going out awhile and you really like her. Most guys would be, well, more accommodating. If she's ripe to bump uglies and you're acting like a demure debutante... some other guy is likely to pluck that right from under your nose. Your man card might be in jeopardy. What the deal? Not a virgin,. maybe it's been a while and had some bad experiences. Mostly she just doesn't ring my bell. There was a girl just before her that seriously made me nuts but she dissed me and I decided to give this a chance. Have been hoping for that kind of attraction that develops over time but it is taking a very long time for some reason. I might just need to admit I'm not attracted to her. 2
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