LakersFan81 Posted September 21, 2015 Posted September 21, 2015 So I have posted before on her about coping with getting over my ex of over 5.5 years. She ended things a little over a year ago. I am doing fine getting over her, and barely think of her anymore. Here's the problem I am struggling with now. I met a girl through mutual friends a couple months ago. Had a good night going out with people, and we ended up making out a lot, but not having sex. Now fast forward couple months later. We had talked some since that night. A couple weekends ago she was in town, and once again, we hung out. Had an amazing/fun weekend, and ended up staying the night together, but didn't have sex. Just made out a ton again. I'm not sure if it's just me not making the next move, or if she just isn't that type of girl. Could be both. I'm not very experienced with hooking up with people outside of relationships. Sorry to keep ranting, but here's the thing. She is an awesome, cool girl. Very nice, and attractive. We get along great when together. I am moving away for a job in the Winter time so I don't really see a likely relationship with us, but both times I have been super depressed the days after. Any idea why? 1) Do I recall the connection I had with my ex and miss it? 2) Do I wish I was dating this current girl? Anyone ever been in similar situations? I still get very mild depression from missing my ex once in a while, but it's nothing serious, but both times I have been with this girl it has been an amazing time together, and then I have just went into deep depression for the couple days/week after it happens. It makes no sense. Sorry for the long rant, but it's frustrating and confusing. Maybe I am just said over not getting laid
MajorOak Posted September 22, 2015 Posted September 22, 2015 Hi LakersFan81 I,m sorry I'm absolutely no help to your situation. I don't like to see threads go unanswered however. Hopefully a more abled forum member will come along shortly and offer some real advice. I have no doubt the girl in question has noted your respectful and gentleman behaviour towards her, so why force it? Good luck.
Bito Posted September 23, 2015 Posted September 23, 2015 Yea it's normal to still have residual feelings after a long relationship. Your mind is so used to things being a certain way. Some people heal quick. Others take time. It's not a good idea to put pressure on yourself to feel a certain way. Go ahead and miss her from time to time. Best of luck
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