Flozfzx Posted September 21, 2015 Posted September 21, 2015 My ex is in a rebound relationship for about 6 months. Out of those six months she kept in touch telling me that she wanted to break up with this guy she wanted to be with me because im her heart. But she trying to break it off. That was last month. She said the guy treats her well but thats not what she wants. I gave her an ultimatum that if she doesnt break it off by the end of august because she was dragging it for months now i said then just leave it but i wont contact her no more and that means she wants to stay. With him I havent contact her or she hasnt either its been 1 month she tried once but i ignored her. So last week i was being nosey and saw her facebook that she change her profile picture to her and the guy together she didnt change it for months until now i was a mad but i knew she was with him still. I wanted to text her so bad tell her wtf you telling me one thing but doing another but i didnt. I think thats what she wanted attention. Afterwards i decide to block her from instagram so hours later she blocks me so i unblock her then she unblocks me then i reblock her so she blocked me again. I need to go nc if it means forever then forever she was playing too many games. I feel she was just stringing me along so i dont get into anything with someone else. The last thing she text me was "let it be if we are meant to be then we are i told her im just gonna keep moving on with my life and date but im not going to get into something at the moment she replied "something at the moment" like being sacristic . I said bye and just went NC.
Author Flozfzx Posted September 21, 2015 Author Posted September 21, 2015 Bump She still playing games?
thejabberwocky Posted September 21, 2015 Posted September 21, 2015 Honestly, if she wanted to be with you, she would be. She isn't, so she doesn't. Sorry to be harsh, but that is the truth of it. It doesn't matter if she's "playing games". She's made her choice by not being with you. It's best to just accept this and commit to NC for real. That means no blocking and unblocking and blocking. Just stop, block her, and move on.
ChicagoSparty Posted September 21, 2015 Posted September 21, 2015 Look at actions, dude. Who cares what she says. What is she doing?
erklat Posted September 21, 2015 Posted September 21, 2015 I gave her an ultimatum that if she doesnt break it off by the end of august because she was dragging it for months now i said then just leave it but i wont contact her no more and that means she wants to stay. With him This here. Clinginess overloaded. You have the lower hand here. Nonchalance was your best bet, not doing exactly what she wanted at the time.
Author Flozfzx Posted September 21, 2015 Author Posted September 21, 2015 (edited) What do you mean? I wasnt acting clinging i just didnt want to keep going on months and months. Early in the months she would random text me that she finish she did this about 5 times. Random text saying " i just want you to know i broke up ill contact in a few days" then next thing i know shes on vacation with the dude. So i had to give her an ultimatum. Is that wrong? Edited September 21, 2015 by Flozfzx
Peanut9330 Posted September 21, 2015 Posted September 21, 2015 For 6 months she was stringing you along and you allowed it if she wanted to break up with him she already would have not drag it out for months. Regardless of what she said you need to focus on her actions she's with him not you and that speaks for itself. The ultimatum should have never happened because you should have been in NC from the beginning not let her string you along like her personal puppet. She probably wasn't sure how things were going to work out with that guy and kept you on the back burner as a back up. I don't know about you but I would never want to be someone's back up plan. Keep up the NC and just walk away from this with what dignity you have left.
dumbass2 Posted September 21, 2015 Posted September 21, 2015 Bump She still playing games? You both are. You gave her an ultimatum. Now be a man and stick it to it. It's done, over with you. You have to move. You don't make ultimatums and then waffle on them because then it never never works. That's not the way to get someone back. Never works. Now it's done and you should be. There's really nothing there. She's happy with her new guy and I don't see it as a rebound.
Author Flozfzx Posted September 21, 2015 Author Posted September 21, 2015 You both are. You gave her an ultimatum. Now be a man and stick it to it. It's done, over with you. You have to move. You don't make ultimatums and then waffle on them because then it never never works. That's not the way to get someone back. Never works. Now it's done and you should be. There's really nothing there. She's happy with her new guy and I don't see it as a rebound. I had 8 years with her and she dump me for taking her for grant which i admitt i did. Its might not be a rebound or not but back few months i had a face to face convo about this she said she didnt want to be there no more they dont click. I told if she ever wanted to be there just go be happy ill move on i know my error And mistakes ill learn.
thunder777 Posted September 22, 2015 Posted September 22, 2015 shes a cesspool now, has other boys germs all over her do u really want to belittle yourself and lay next to your once sweet princess who is now grotty and polluted haha 1
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