Oregon_Dude Posted September 22, 2015 Share Posted September 22, 2015 Sorry if I missed it, but how old is she, OP? If she's early 20's, chances are she loves and needs attention from any-/everyone, and will be incapable of being emotionally or physically faithful until her late 20s/early 30s. My ex also used to tell me that she got really "conversational" with strangers when drunk. Yet another big red flag. Some women just need constant flirtation and validation from men. This makes them terrible girlfriends. You cannot trust them. Link to post Share on other sites
Mrlonelyone Posted September 22, 2015 Share Posted September 22, 2015 Spirit of full disclosure? Sure. If by spirit of full disclosure, you mean alcohol. This is some 190 proof disclosure she was offering. Proof that she's still looking to trade up. OP Consider this...are you trying to marry this woman? If not, and all you want is someone fun to date for a while date her don't mate her. Keep your eyes open, and see what else is out there for you. Don't dump her. The sad fact is, and many married folks will tell you this, you get hit on more when you are in a relationship. It is as if people can smell it emanate from you. Link to post Share on other sites
kendahke Posted September 22, 2015 Share Posted September 22, 2015 Hmmmm.... if one has a decent enough grasp of human nature/behavior in general, through reading, observing what others have experienced, etc. it's possible to be objective and base your opinion on your knowledge/observations thereof.... It is still all speculation though, even if one were to base it on his/her own experiences. I completely disagree. Link to post Share on other sites
katiegrl Posted September 22, 2015 Share Posted September 22, 2015 I completely disagree. I'm cool with that.... Link to post Share on other sites
Keenly Posted September 22, 2015 Share Posted September 22, 2015 Here's another theory. This guy she met is a figment of her imagination and none of this actually happened and the picture of the rose was not hers. Her actions are very deliberate and in reality they don't really add up, so I reckon her goal could have been to get a message across to the OP that he's not paying her enough attention or simply to get him jealous. Then she is terrible at communicating her feelings and resorts to making things up and toying with her boyfriend in order to get her message across. Who even wants some one like that within 30 feet of them, let alone an intimate relationship with a person like that? Link to post Share on other sites
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