ChattyKat Posted September 21, 2015 Posted September 21, 2015 We have been friends for a few years and do things together with our group of friends. One time recently, we went out to eat just the two of us. Then also, recently flaked out on me at the last minute about our plans without a legit reason for doing so. So then, I threw out the idea to him of us dating. At first, he avoided the question like I was joking about it. Then after telling him I was serious about us dating, he seemed freaked out by avoiding talking about it other than he believes Jesus needs to be in the middle of a relationship between woman and man. He is deeply religious. Meaning he doesn't believe sex before marriage. However, he knows that I've had premarital sex in the past. And I respect his decision wanting to wait until marriage. With him being in his 40's & still a virgin, and always joking about sex and women, seem like he would want to be in a relationship & experience the real thing instead of joking about it all the time. I've never been a serious relationship so don't know what to expect
d0nnivain Posted September 21, 2015 Posted September 21, 2015 He's not interested. If he's hung on to his V card into his 40s, he's not interested in changing his status. Relationships probably scare him. Leave him be. You put it out there. He didn't jump. Don't offer again. 1
stillafool Posted September 21, 2015 Posted September 21, 2015 I completely agree with the above. If he were interested he would have jumped at the chance instead of trying to avoid the conversation. Is this the guy that just got out of prison? 1
Author ChattyKat Posted September 21, 2015 Author Posted September 21, 2015 He's not interested. If he's hung on to his V card into his 40s, he's not interested in changing his status. Relationships probably scare him. Leave him be. You put it out there. He didn't jump. Don't offer again. Right, I don't want to come off as a psycho. lol I completely agree with the above. If he were interested he would have jumped at the chance instead of trying to avoid the conversation. Is this the guy that just got out of prison? No, different guy that has never been in trouble with the law. He doesn't even believe in getting drunk because of his religious views.
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