folsom Posted September 21, 2015 Posted September 21, 2015 met a man & we both connected. he was gifted some ball tickets last season and we went out that outing. had a lot on my mind as far as my life plans and a bit distracted tho i still felt a connection. then hung out again, not much of a connection the 2nd time. didnt hang out for awhile and there sparked a connection. What to do when i cant decide my own interest level?! neither one of us are seeing or interested in anyone else. he even took his dating profile down. We're both 30. I think he could definitely be my 'mister right'. What causes on or off again chemistry? He definitely has he right moves mentally to keep me engaged intellectually and such. He's very flattering and gets my interest in that way as well. I've been out with a couple other men BUT none have as intrigued me as he has. But I haven't seen him ample times since the second huge lull in my interest level. Will there be a spark in time ?
TaraMaiden2 Posted September 21, 2015 Posted September 21, 2015 If it's chemistry, there's never an 'off'. What you're feeling isn't 'chemistry' it's the wishful thinking that something else would take it up a notch, and it's not happening. Don't put your life on hold for a "possibly-maybe".
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