ExpatInItaly Posted September 23, 2015 Share Posted September 23, 2015 ??? because i LOVED him for 2 years... i don't see how you can love someone with everything in you and not want to check up on them. Even if he doesn't care about me I will always care about him, i'll always wonder if he's happy. No matter how much he hurt me. Those are your feelings. They're not necessarily his anymore. Just as you can't control how you feel, neither can he. That's the hardest part of a break-up. Two people who once loved each other a lot no longer share those feelings, and while they wish each other the best, they understand they can't stay present in each other's lives especially so soon after ending the relationship. I know you don't feel this way now, but eventually you will see how him blocking you helps you move on. Also, as another poster asked, what did you do when you "flipped out" while he was away? This might provide some further context to explain why he felt he needed to block you. Link to post Share on other sites
TaraMaiden2 Posted September 23, 2015 Share Posted September 23, 2015 ??? because i LOVED him for 2 years... Sadly, that means nothing, as anyone divorcing after a 10-year marriage will testify. The amount of time is irrelevant. The amount of love is imbalanced. you obviously 'loved' more. That still can't make up for any deficit on the other side. i don't see how you can love someone with everything in you and not want to check up on them. If you really can't, then ask him. His reply will tell you just how he can do it. Even if he doesn't care about me I will always care about him, i'll always wonder if he's happy. No matter how much he hurt me. What a waste of goodness and kindness that will be. Because he's doing his level best to never wonder that about you, or care, or be concerned with how much pain he's caused. Even now, the feelings are purely one-sided. never invest where nothing is reciprocated or paid back, with interest.... Link to post Share on other sites
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