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Hey guys it's me again, in need of more advice.

 

What a small world.. Last night I was at a bar and met a really cool chick. Eventually got her number and today I organised a date for this week.

 

Guess what? I just found out that she's me ex's best friends sister.

 

This causes problems for me for a couple of reasons:

 

1) My ex's best friend was genuinely crazy (ex knew this too), although her sister seems very normal in comparison, it's a worry (they live together and are very close).

2) I wouldn't want drama to be caused and perhaps rejected unfairly due to her mentioning me to her sister etc.

 

I just want to avoid unnecessary drama. If something were to happen between us then so be it, same goes for if nothing works out, but yeah... a little confusing.

 

Opinions?

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"I just want to avoid unnecessary drama. If something were to happen between us then so be it, same goes for if nothing works out, but yeah... a little confusing."

 

I'm not sure what you're asking. You seem to have answered your own question.

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I guess I did, I've still got the date planned and going ahead with it, just wanted some other opinions.

 

Perhaps some of you should be convincing me other wise? Red flags? Ahh who knows, just a little roadblock in my mind!

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You should totally go. Going on one date with her won't hurt you and it's not like she's your ex's sister or your ex's best friend. She's even more removed from your ex than that.

 

Just because your ex's best friend was "crazy" doesn't mean that her sister is. She could be totally normal.

 

Go on the date.

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