One_Made_of_Silver Posted September 20, 2015 Posted September 20, 2015 There's this girl who's a regular at this small gym I go to. I met her in a group fitness class. They have a menu of various classes throughout the week, and once in a while we're taking the same one that day. That's happened a couple times, and I'm sure I'll see her again. We've chatted briefly while getting our workout stuff and on the way to our cars. She has to dash off to work after class. She's told me a little bit about her job and some of her hobbies (making jewelry and stuff). She's a free spirit type, very friendly (she introduced me to one of her friends in the class even though she doesn't know me that well), and just seems like a very interesting person in general. She actually reminds me of one of my close friends. I'd like to get to know her. Friends, lovers, it doesn't matter -- I'd like to have any kind of relationship with her outside the gym, something more than acquaintances. The trouble is, I don't want to ruin the gym experience for her if I asked her to hang out some time and she doesn't share that desire. So, I'm undecided about whether to do that. The gym has a sense of community and escape, and I don't want to take that from her. What to do? Should I leave it alone?
menyou Posted September 20, 2015 Posted September 20, 2015 Offer to buy her a protein shake after class one day.
Versacehottie Posted September 20, 2015 Posted September 20, 2015 You are just going to have to turn on your senses and gauge her reactions. Take little steps toward building a flirty friendship with her and see if you can take it outside of the gym. If she's as cool and free-spirited as you've made her sound, AND she likes you, I don't think she will mind. She will probably be happy. You need to find out more about her though and not assume she is single. Just go for it.
Charlie Harper Posted September 20, 2015 Posted September 20, 2015 Once I saw a perfect 10 on the gym, I asked my instructor what kind of machine I should use to impress her...He told me: The ATM. LOLOLOLOLOL Now seriously, go ask her just tell her but be clear, women like certainty a lot, say I want to hang out with you, friends, whatever, nothing forced, no push, just want to know you and see where that take us, if you don't want it for any reason, cool, but if you give me a chance you won't regret it.... smile and avoid being pushy or begging. simple as that. Fortune is on the bold side. 2
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