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Expectations of a mysterious persona


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I joined social media to get my work out as I am an amateur landscape artist. During my free time, I can be found downtown sketching pictures of this and that and everything. Hence I run a blog and upload regularly and have gain a good following. What I did not expect to encounter was the amount of single woman online chasing me. I guess I have built this persona of a mysterious but sincere, funny etc man behind the pen that has taken on a life of its own.

 

1 of these particular fans has taken on a liking to me so much that she has been so inquisitive and pursuing of my whereabouts; not in a stalker obsessed kind of way but in a fun confident way. Unfortunately for me she's your typical wide eyed physically modelesque type female and I guess I like many before have succumbed to her looks.

 

Doesn't mean I've let on anything. My personal details remain personal as she sifts through downtown with my every upload flirtatiously demanding I reveal myself!

 

The thing is we've started to message and we really match well; we share similiar interests, personality traits and the likes. Unfortunately thats where it ends but. I mean here is this blonde bombshell and then me. Though I haven't lied, I don't think I physically match the persona that I have built for myself on social media. Obvious being that I am not of european decent. It's not that I am this overweight slouch hiding behind a screen; quite the opposite in being a toned, leaned and well dressed gentle man.

 

But I guess my issue is that the disappointment of if we ever bump into each other and not sure how I'd take it if it makes her run for the hills. So here I lie at cross roads opening up a discussion to strangers on social media (the irony!).

 

Advice?

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She is intrigued by you, she doesn't sound like she has been too intrusive.

You don't know that you aren't her type.

Men get an impression of me that I am into the muscular huge body builder type and I am completely not.

 

I'd love to meet a man into something like that. It's a passion for you.

In fact the most recent men I have dated didn't have any passions for anything, no hobbies, no nothing.

 

Let her know where you will be sometime.

Yu have nothing to lose.

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