lokansonlok Posted September 20, 2015 Posted September 20, 2015 So i met this guy in a club and he talked to me. I was gonna go home so he asked me for my no. because he said that he would like to know if I'm home safe. Then he left because his friend was really drunk. But then after an hour, he texted me to ask if I want to come over, so I did. We made out and a bit more and cuddled, but we didn't have sex. What do you think it means? Do you think that it's a one time thing and should I text him?
Maharishi Posted September 20, 2015 Posted September 20, 2015 He may be a serial killer but for some lucky reason chose not to make you his latest victim. 1
Author lokansonlok Posted September 20, 2015 Author Posted September 20, 2015 He may be a serial killer but for some lucky reason chose not to make you his latest victim. Why say so hahaha you think it's gonna happen again?
Redhead14 Posted September 20, 2015 Posted September 20, 2015 So i met this guy in a club and he talked to me. I was gonna go home so he asked me for my no. because he said that he would like to know if I'm home safe. Then he left because his friend was really drunk. But then after an hour, he texted me to ask if I want to come over, so I did. We made out and a bit more and cuddled, but we didn't have sex. What do you think it means? Do you think that it's a one time thing and should I text him? If he doesn't contact you again, it was a one time thing. Don't text him. Let him come to you for a bit.
Author lokansonlok Posted September 20, 2015 Author Posted September 20, 2015 If he doesn't contact you again, it was a one time thing. Don't text him. Let him come to you for a bit. but what if i can't remember his name and i just wanna know?
losangelena Posted September 20, 2015 Posted September 20, 2015 I'd take it at face value if I were you. You drunkenly met some guy at a bar, gave him your number, then went to his place and made out. What are your expectations? I think that is a better question. For me, if I met a man under those circumstances, I would assume it was a one-and-done situation. I might be pleasantly surprised to hear from him again, but I wouldn't expect it. And in the moment I wouldn't assume that he had any interest beyond that one night. If, like in your situation, we didn't have sex, I would then expect to maybe hear from him, but only so he could try again and seal the deal. So, I think at this point you should ask yourself what you expect and what you want. If you want to sleep with him, by all means do so. But if you're expecting a wonderful relationship to blossom, this is probably not the way to go about it.
losangelena Posted September 20, 2015 Posted September 20, 2015 but what if i can't remember his name and i just wanna know? You don't remember his name?? Then what makes you think he highly valued your evening, either?
Redhead14 Posted September 20, 2015 Posted September 20, 2015 but what if i can't remember his name and i just wanna know? If you can't remember his name, I'd say he didn't make much of an impression. Forget about him for now. If he is really interested in you, you will hear from him again. It doesn't matter what his name is unless or until he contacts you again for a proper date and shows you he is woethy of you remembering his name.
Author lokansonlok Posted September 20, 2015 Author Posted September 20, 2015 I'd take it at face value if I were you. You drunkenly met some guy at a bar, gave him your number, then went to his place and made out. What are your expectations? I think that is a better question. For me, if I met a man under those circumstances, I would assume it was a one-and-done situation. I might be pleasantly surprised to hear from him again, but I wouldn't expect it. And in the moment I wouldn't assume that he had any interest beyond that one night. If, like in your situation, we didn't have sex, I would then expect to maybe hear from him, but only so he could try again and seal the deal. So, I think at this point you should ask yourself what you expect and what you want. If you want to sleep with him, by all means do so. But if you're expecting a wonderful relationship to blossom, this is probably not the way to go about it. tbh I just wanna sleep with him and that's it. What should I do? Any advice?
losangelena Posted September 20, 2015 Posted September 20, 2015 If you wanted to, why didn't you last night? Do you have HIS number? Call/text him and meet up with him again. I mean, what he's going to think less of you? All you want to do is bang. Women are usually trying NOT to come off that way, so don't worry about it. I don't really understand what the big deal is. Are you hesitating because you don't remember his name?
Redhead14 Posted September 20, 2015 Posted September 20, 2015 tbh I just wanna sleep with him and that's it. What should I do? Any advice? Fine, text him -- "hey, I don't remember your name and it doesn't matter, cuz I just wanna bang you and then hit the road. You down wid dat?" 1
losangelena Posted September 20, 2015 Posted September 20, 2015 LOL, Red. I'm trying to picture you texting that to a guy. That'd be amazing!
Redhead14 Posted September 20, 2015 Posted September 20, 2015 LOL, Red. I'm trying to picture you texting that to a guy. That'd be amazing! If I were in this "mode", I woulda banged da dude when I was there the first time. And, THEN, I would have started a thread that took 200 pages to analyze him and try to figure out why I am not hearing from him for a week and asking whether I should text him to define our relationship and move to the next level 2
Maharishi Posted September 20, 2015 Posted September 20, 2015 Why are you so preoccupied with some complete random whose name you can't remember? Was he particularly special?
Maharishi Posted September 20, 2015 Posted September 20, 2015 If I were in this "mode", I woulda banged da dude when I was there the first time. And, THEN, I would have started a thread that took 200 pages to analyze him and try to figure out why I am not hearing from him for a week and asking whether I should text him to define our relationship and move to the next level hahahahahaha:D:D:D
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